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Derek Antonucci Obituary

Derek Mark Antonucci, 32, left this world on May 4, 2021. Born in Farmington, CT on March 14, 1989, the tragic loss is profound for his parents, Mark Antonucci, of Granby, Connecticut and Elisa Polci and Patrick Gilkes of Portland, Maine; grandparents: Mary Polci of Granby, Barbara and Donald Antonucci of Barkhamsted. His sisters, Kasey Antonucci and Keira Hollister deeply mourn the passing of their adoring big brother. He was predeceased by his grandfather, William Polci; great-grandparents, James and Marjorie Desmond; and stepfather, Daniel Hollister, all of with whom he shared special bonds. Cherished by his aunts and uncles, Derek leaves an unfillable void in in the lives of Keith Polci, Maura and Ted Provencher, and Kim Antonucci. His endearing humor and charm made him treasured by all, especially his first cousins: Priscilla and Savannah Polci, Isabelle, Emelia and Caroline Provencher, and Ryan, Justin and Alex Walton. Derek was loved by his large extended family. Raised in Granby, CT, Derek attended local schools and participated in Little League, Rovers Soccer and Motocross. He graduated from Granby Memorial High School and attended Vermont Technical College. He loved fishing, snowboarding and, in recent years, became passionate about ocean conservation and diving, spending several months in Florida earning certification and working with his cousin Ryan on a dive boat. In addition to oceanic creatures, he had a unique ability to connect with animals, no matter the species. We have many stories of Derek rescuing animals in need, from frogs to squirrels and beyond. He especially loved all of the family dogs. His dog Zoe will miss their car rides together. No one is immune to the epidemic of opioid addiction and the biological impact of this disease that encumbers our society. Derek worked at recovery for nearly ten years, throughout which we kept hope for his healing. Our devastated family encourages you to learn more at www.apromisetojordan.org. Derek's family is grateful for the encouragement he received from many who cared deeply about his well-being. In particular, we would like to acknowledge his lifelong friends Michael Bednaz and Chuck Constable, and supporters from his recovery network, especially Steph and Danny. Donations can be made in his honor to A Promise to Jordan (www.apromisetojordan.org) and the Farrell Treatment Center (www.farrell-tc.com). For visiting hours and condolences, please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on May 10, 2021.

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Danny Waida

September 1, 2021

My number is 860-518-7889....if you want to grab that coffee and talk.

Cindy

May 11, 2021

Watching Derek grow up in NEMA motocross organization there are no words to describe the bond within our club. You had to experience it for yourself. Derek would be the first one to pick you up when you were down. His kindness showed in everything he did. He never wanted to be recognized as a mentor to riders new to the club. He would step up to a little racer for their first race, help with the gear out the rider at ease. He was a great mentor. He made me laugh when I shouldn’t , but that is the part I loved about him. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Carolyn West

May 11, 2021

Mary-
David and I send our deepest sympathy and love to you and all your family.
Carolyn

Melissa Cooke

May 10, 2021

I was a grade above Derek, graduated in 2006. During middle school we were close friends. I will never forget the time he had his mom pick me up so we could go to the movies to see a movie I told him I wanted to see. We were about 13. He always had the best smile and the biggest heart. He's the type of person you never forget because of how good he made you feel. He was so thoughtful and passionate. My thoughts are with all of his family. May you find peace in all he has accomplished and all the special memories you have.

Laura Phelps

May 10, 2021

I am so saddened to see this obituary. I remember Derek from motocross with Michael and it breaks my heart to see that he couldn't escape his demon. He had a good heart and I will remember him for that. And also his humor he loved to be a jokester. So sorry for your loss.

Cathleen Waters and family

May 10, 2021

Our love and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.

Jane Schneider

May 10, 2021

My heart is filled with sadness at your loss. Prayers for all of you that you can find peace for your spirit in the good memories of Derek. Bless all to you, Jane Schneider

Jaime and Ali Hernandez

May 10, 2021

Our love goes out to you all in this devastating time. Derek will be missed so much!!

Lisa & Dave Parker

May 10, 2021

So very sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy to everyone.

Johnny & Karen Dlubac

May 10, 2021

Our sincere condolences to the Family.

Renee Woodard

May 10, 2021

My thoughts and prayers go out to your family so very sorry for your loss.

Pat thibault

May 9, 2021

My sincere sympathy to the entire family. My thougts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. God bless

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