Dominick Del "Dom" Vecchio

Dominick Del "Dom" Vecchio obituary, Mahopac, NY

Dominick Del "Dom" Vecchio

Dominick Vecchio Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Cargain Funeral Homes Inc. - Carmel on Oct. 1, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

It is with great affection and profound respect that we announce the passing of Dominick "Dom" J. Del Vecchio. Dom left us peacefully on May 11, 2025, in Danbury, Connecticut, at the age of 87, surrounded by the love of his family.
Dom's life began on July 5, 1937, in New York City as the son of Gennaro and Rosa Del Vecchio. He was predeceased by his siblings: Mary, Elisa, and Tony. He shared his life with his beloved wife, Patricia (Jira) Del Vecchio. Together, they raised a beautiful family and influenced their children, Laura (Kevin) Doyle, Donna (Seth) Brandow, Rose (Pete) Carbocci and Brenda (Anthony) DeBellis.
Dom proudly served with the NYPD for 21 years at the 45th Precinct in the Bronx, demonstrating his dedication to protecting and serving the community. After his police service, he ventured into new endeavors, working for American Can Company before eventually finding his greatest professional joy in driving a bus for the Brewster Central School District.
Although his love for his family was the highlight of his existence, appreciating music, tending to his flower garden, collecting watches and clocks, and admiring the birds from his favorite chair were some of the simple pleasures of life that he enjoyed. He was a highly intelligent man and had a passion for reading; the dictionary was his favorite book! An avid NY sports fan and supporter of the Giants, Mets, and Rangers, he was quick to remind us that the Buffalo Bills are a NY team as well.
His passion for life included special moments dancing the Lindy with his wife, Patsy, playing cards with dear friends, and cherishing time with his grandchildren: Nick & Gregg Doyle, Ross Brandow & Olivia (Josh) Newcombe, Dan (Ashley) & Scott (Taylor) Janke. He adored his great-grandchildren, Sienna and Cameron, and was eagerly anticipating the arrival of two more.
His legacy endures in those who knew him. His teaching of important life lessons and his many words of wisdom will live on in the hearts of his four daughters. We celebrate a life well lived with his true love of 66 years, his beloved wife, Patsy!
In lieu of flowers, kindly consider a donation in memory of Dominick to .
Funeral arrangements entrusted to Cargain Funeral Homes, Inc., 10 Fowler Avenue, Carmel, NY 10512, 845-225-3672, .
We at Cargain Funeral Home is deeply committed to responsibly responding to the health, well-being, and needs of the families, guests and communities we are privileged to serve.
To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Dominick "Dom", please visit our Tree Store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support Dominick's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Dominick Vecchio's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Dominick Vecchio's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?