Donald Gordon Buttermore

Donald Gordon Buttermore obituary, Houston, TX

Donald Gordon Buttermore

Donald Buttermore Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 8, 2025.
Don was born September 25, 1955, to Richard Donald Buttermore and Leslie Seagrave Buttermore in Parkersburg, West Virginia. He succumbed to complications from a double lung transplant received in July 2024, after a diagnosis of idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis. The love of his life and wife Mary Florence Paulette was by his side during this difficult journey.

After Parkersburg High School, Don received a BA in Economics from Denison University in Granville, Ohio and an MBA in Finance and Marketing from Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia. After graduation, Don went to work for Exxon (later ExxonMobil), moved to Houston, and retired after 36 years of service. There he held numerous positions, ending his career as ExxonMobil's Senior Cyber Security Advisor. He represented ExxonMobil at industry and government initiatives including development of the NIST Cyber Security Framework within the company.

While working, Don was also a Junior Achievement (JA) volunteer for 27 years, teaching high school seniors Applied Economics. At the time of his retirement, he was recognized as holding the record for the highest number of years volunteering with JA for anyone at ExxonMobil. His volunteer work started at Kingwood High School and ended at Reagan High School.

In Don's personal life he was an active runner, cyclist, and martial arts instructor. He ran over 10,000 miles along Buffalo Bayou, completed 5 marathons, a triathlon, and the MS 150 bike ride from Houston to Austin 6 times. For 17 years he was the Tai Chi instructor at the downtown YMCA. While teaching at the YMCA Don met his future bride Mary. During COVID, Don and Mary held free Tai Chi classes, in person and online, and continued to do so until he became ill. It was a great passion of his to watch his students learn the practice of Tai Chi. Don was also an integral member of the Lein Shen Wu Tai Chi class taught by Gary Martinez.

Don loved his yearly trip to Jazz Fest in New Orleans, which he had been doing since meeting Mary. At Jazz Fest, he would enjoy the company of the Supper Club Limited International, a large group of friends who attended yearly. It was in New Orleans where Don and Mary exchanged their marriage vows, in the presence of friends and Supper Club members.

He is survived by Mary, his wife and partner of 25 years, and sisters Barbara Buttermore Hansen and Jenny Buttermore Clark. He is also survived by half siblings Richard Leroy Radcliff, Angie Speece Chase and Dawn Speece Miles. His brother Richard Seagrave Buttermore preceded him in death.

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Regina Seagrave

Yesterday

I so appreciate the visit of Don and Mary for my 80Th birthday here in Montana. We enjoyed the time and the many memories from our visits with his parents in Parkersburg so many years ago. Rest in peace Don, love to Mary, Regina

Jim and Denise Stoneman

Yesterday

Dear Mary,

We were so saddened to hear about Don´s passing. While we only met you both during our trip to Australia, I will always remember the fun times we all shared together with the group. Don´s easy smile and warm personality made every moment more enjoyable.

Please know you are in our thoughts during this difficult time, and I hope your heart finds comfort in the wonderful memories you shared together.

Jim and Denise Stoneman

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Audie & Becky Valls

August 9, 2025

Audie & I have fond memories of practicing TaiChiQigong with Don & Mary in Sufi Gary´s class at Moriman Park, then visiting for a group breakfast. You will be missed, Don. Peace.

Linda Singer

August 9, 2025

I will miss seeing Don´s smiling face at Tai Chi. He and Mary were a very inspiring team. They were so generous with their time, offering free Tai Chi classes during the pandemic and afterwards. Their athleticism, travel adventures and love of life are a great inspiration to many who crossed their path. I will really miss Don.

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James Hobbs

August 9, 2025

Don was a mentor and friend. He welcomed me when I moved to Houston. He had the whole team doing tai chi in the afternoons. He was brave and caring. I´m lighting a candle for you Don and will remember the light you brought to the world.

Donna Wade

August 9, 2025

Don was a huge resource to me in my Cyber Security training days, I depended on him allot. I met him at a United Way Golf tournament after joining Exxon. He was well respected by his peers. I'm so sorry his retirement years were cut short, but he certainly did live a full life. RIP sir.

John Bruce

August 9, 2025

Don was a great person to work with over the years. God Bless and Prayers for the family. Safe journey to Eternity. May he RIP.

Beatrice Graham

August 8, 2025

Dear Mary,
I am so sorry for your loss. Don was an inspiration to all of us, such a gracious, noble, kind soul. You and Don were an amazing tai chi team, teaching with joy, wisdom and heartfelt generosity. We continue to live your life lessons.
Your grateful student,
Beatrice

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Eva Stubits.

August 8, 2025

Don was an extraordinary person who loved life and new adventures. He was an avid reader who expressed his ideas with great insight and thoughtfulness. A wonderful cook and generous host, he was always witty and kind. He will remain in our hearts forever. Eva Stubits.

Ann Quinn Todd

August 8, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers of comfort you & the family

Mary Paulette

August 8, 2025

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Kevin M. OBrien

August 8, 2025

Don made work fun. I enjoyed working with him on some extremely dry technical material.

Happy Trails Don!

Kevin M. OBrien

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