Douglas Benham

Douglas Lee Benham, 86, of Cumming, Georgia, won his final earthly battle on November 03, 2025. Having beaten cancer 15 years earlier, Doug lived each day with a deep understanding of the power of purpose, competence, and community. He believed that life's challenges could forge strength and wisdom - that being part of something greater than oneself, maintaining useful skills, and cultivating genuine relationships worked together to create the resilience to stand tall through every trial.
Doug was a devout Christian, a dutiful son, a devoted husband, a loving father and grandfather, and always a role model, mentor, and confidant to his two brothers and three sisters. To his nieces and nephews, he was nothing short of a hero. A true friend to every neighbor, Doug was always ready to lend his expert handyman skills to any project that appeared on a friend's "honey-do" list. Few could match his warmth, generosity, or competitive spirit - especially in the neighborhood's legendary water volleyball tournaments.
He was preceded in death by his parents, J. Walther junior and Lucile; his brother, Jack; his sisters, Laverne and Gail; and his beloved grandniece, Grace Caroline White.
Doug is survived by his loving wife of 47 years, Carol McLain Benham; his daughter, Sherri; and his grandchildren, Aura Lee, Megan Lynn, and Joseph Douglas. He also leaves behind his brother, Lamon; his sister, Lois; as well as many nieces, nephews, and countless dear friends who will cherish his memory.
A memorial service will be held at Lanier United Methodist Church on Saturday, November 8th, 2025 at 11am in Cumming, Georgia, for local friends, with a follow-on service at Connley Brothers Funeral Home in Covington, Kentucky.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Operation Grace White Foundation via PayPal at TOGWF@yahoo.com or by check mailed to:
OGWF 536 Beaumont Court Fort Wright, KY 41011