Douglas G. Hearle

Douglas G. Hearle obituary, Pelham, NY

Douglas G. Hearle

Douglas Hearle Obituary

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Born into a family of policemen, Doug charted a course of his own. Although he took the NYPD exam, while he awaited the results, he was offered a job as a cub reporter for The Journal-American, at that time, the flagship Hearst paper in the country. He had become a leading crime and current events reporter with the paper when a labor strike led to its closing. Having honed his communications skills to a science, he entered the field of public relations first at the Borden's and then at Hill & Knowlton, the largest public relations company in the world. Doug began as a account executive and rose the position of vice-chairman, specializing in international affairs and crisis management. Having established himself as an expert in his field, he seized the opportunity in 1986 to establish his own firm, the Douglas G. Hearle and Associations in New York City which he ran with his wife, Mary. His international experience included only later-disclosed undercover work for the CIA which provided material for his semi-autobiographical novel, Outsource. He graduated from Iona College with a BA in 1954 and later earned his MBA, also at Iona. He served in the United States Navy on a destroyer for two years assigned to anti-submarine patrol in the North Atlantic and Arctic Circle. Loving teaching and a consummate story teller and communicator, he volunteered many hours as a docent at the Bartow-Pell Mansion in the Bronx for which he did extensive research and subsequent lectures on "The Invisible Irish,"--the women who were forced out of Ireland by the famine and who came to the US as servants to wealthy American families later to become the nurses and the teachers of the next generation. He served as president of the Danny Fund, a home-grown charity for the families of seriously ill children; he also served many years on the board of the Roper Center in CT; two terms on the School Board of Pelham; two terms on the board of the College of New Rochelle, and taught for several years at Iona College, the College of New Rochelle and Fordham University. In 2017, he received the Marquis Who's Who Achievement Award recognizing his over 40 years of achievements in crisis management public relations. despite his many professional successes and accomplishments, he was, first and foremost, most proud of his family. The triumph of his life was his 61 -year marriage to Mary, who stood by him through thick and thin. They lived in Pelham for over fifty-two years, raising three sons: Douglas, Chris (Kelly), and Matthew (Donna). He was exceptionally proud of his five grandchildren, Chris, Caitlin, Kylie, Catherine and Ian and he relished the time he had with each. A gathering of friends and family will be held at the Pelham Funeral Home on Thursday, September 6 from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. A mass of Christian burial will take place at Holy Family Chapel at the College of New Rochelle, Friday, September 7 at 11:00 a.m

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August 31, 2020

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June 18, 2019

Joe Palisi posted to the memorial.

January 13, 2019

Marty Appel posted to the memorial.

Angela Iadavaia-Cox

August 31, 2020

Dear Mary: I send my love and prayers to you and your family. Am so sad to hear of Doug's passing and the loss of man of creativity, integrity, humor and love. My thoughts are with you.

Joe Palisi

June 18, 2019

Navy Boot Camp mate, 1952. Classmate, Iona College, '54. Saw Doug last at our 60th reunion. Sorry to hear of his passing.

Marty Appel

January 13, 2019

I am quite late in learning of Doug's passing, but wanted to extend condolences to his family. Doug and I enjoyed many great conversations over the years whether on projects in NYC or on Metro North heading home to Westchester. What a delight to be in his company.....what a good man.

Bob Wirz

September 17, 2018

I just learned of Doug's passing. I am so very sorry. I considered him one-of-a-kind, both as a person and as a writer/publicist/PR man. We worked together quite closely in recent years in two writing/PR groups. My condolences to the entire family.

Liz Kendall [email protected]

September 6, 2018

Dear Mary, Doug Jr, Chris, Big Matt and families - We were so very sad to read about Doug's passing. Needless to say, the extended O'Brien family all share many happy memories of fun times spent with him and your family. He was an engaging and wonderful person and we will miss him greatly. May God bless him and all of you. Much love, Tom O'Brien, Anne/Nan and Eric Sandlund, Liz and Steve Kendall, Austin and Diane O'Brien and our families

Ellie Mick

September 6, 2018

Dear Mary, was heartbroken to learn about Doug's death today. So many memories come to mind. He was such a good man with a fun loving Irish soul. My heart goes out to you, the boys, and the extended family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I was there to give my respects and to give you a great big hug. Sending our deepest sympathy and love. Ellie and Mick

Jim Holdridge

September 5, 2018

Chris and family, sorry for your loss.

Barry Johnson

September 5, 2018

My Condolences to the Hearle Family.

Ger O Riain

September 5, 2018

Dear Mary, I was saddened to hear of Doug's passing. Having only met him briefly the effect on my life and that of my family was profound. His humility and warmth was infectious. You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts at this time.

Peg Casey Walz

September 4, 2018

Dear Mary, I am so sorry to hear that Doug has left this good earth. He was a good man.
Your CNR classmate, Peg Casey Walz.

Mary Noonan

September 3, 2018

My sincere sympathy to Mary and her family on the loss of Douglas. My family in Ireland will always remember him with great affection.

Mary Noonan, cousin. Mount Merrion Co. Dublin Ireland

Mary O'Meara-Florish

September 3, 2018

Sending our deepest Sympathies to you all. Keeping you in our prayers and thoughts

Marven Moss

September 2, 2018

Doug was an engaging, compassionate human being with a great depth of knowledge and a flair for story-telling. He will be greatly missed by all of us who lunched with him regularly as members of Thursday III. Deepest condolences to Mary, his sons and the family.

John and Ann O'Meara

September 2, 2018

So sorry to hear your sad news

Barbara Neus

September 1, 2018

I was saddened to hear of Doug's passing. I'll think of him walking his dog and being so friendly.

Shari Winard

August 31, 2018

It was honor and a pleasure working with Doug at Bartow-Pell Mansion Museum. He expressed such joy sharing his knowledge and his experiences, I treasure the times our paths crossed. My favorite memories are of him in period costume and him discussing his book.

Sue Magnuson

August 31, 2018

Dancing at Mary's surprise 80th Birthday party!

Joe Gaudio

August 31, 2018

I was lucky enough to meet and train Doug at the ymca...just a great guy, great stories and a lot of wonderful conversations...I'm going to miss him, Joe

Anthony Bombace

August 31, 2018

My sincerest condolences and sympathies on the loss. May he rest in peace always.

Sue Magnuson

August 30, 2018

One of our most favorite people has left us! Guy and I are so very saddened by this news and send our very deepest condolences to Mary and her sons and their families. Sue & Guy Magnuson

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