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Lindsay Colman
September 19, 2024
I've been trying to figure out what to say here.
Ian was a kind soul. A helpful soul. He was someone I was proud to call a friend.
He made my pilgrimage to Detroit for techno Christmas a reality in 2023 when I couldn't for myself. And asked nothing I'm return for my day he had made amazing.
From the short time I knew Ian, he was generous, caring, and engaging with our group of friends. Never afraid to share his thoughts, views, or beliefs.
He was smart, and was also willing to seek help in areas he knew he was weak in, which is a rare trait in my experience. He was a mentor to a friend of mine.
Ian, you will be missed by many.
To Ian's wife, family, and Sam. I hope you all were able to know the side of Ian that our little techno family did.
Marc Vosecky
September 11, 2024
My first memory of Ian was being introduced to him by Pete. I was homeless, and lost, and Ian decided that wasn't going to fly, and gave me a home. He introduced me to music production and helped me discover how much I loved doing it.
I will miss him deeply.
Megan Little
September 9, 2024
Ian entered my life at a very dark time. I was struck by the compassion and empathy he showed me, and by extension, everything and everyone else in his life. Even if he didn't want to admit it, to the trained eye it was obvious he held on to the pure, unfettered sweetness we all possess as children. This "boyishness" presented itself in many ways - the all or nothing effort he put into everything he did, his constant desire to learn, the sense of wonder in his eyes when something would surprise him, and above all else, a great courage to do right by others, even if that cost him something in return.
The two of us formed a bond over our specific taste in the arts and aesthetics. We delved into each other's favorite music genres, and sending each other songs and records began to feel like a love language in itself. I've never known another person to throw themselves into the unknown so completely, eager to understand, to really "get it" and feel the messages and emotional weight of the art he consumed.
Underneath the stoicism and snark on the surface, Ian had a warm, tender side to himself. He may not have been big on using words to communicate his emotions, but he knew how to make you feel understood and cared for. A softening of the eyes would speak volumes, or when he'd put his hand on your shoulder or gently touch his fingers to yours, he was telling you you were seen. You always knew you were safe with him.
I'll finish here by saying this: Ian, you are so loved. You've left your mark on me, on all of us. Your memory will burn bright in the hearts of all who knew you, a steadfast light to lead us out of the dark abyss of your absence.
Megan Little
September 4, 2024
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Megan Little
September 4, 2024
Phyllis Valdez
September 3, 2024
Leaving us is a bittersweet reminder to strive to make his life count by living our lives with intention. It is apparent from stories shared he wanted that. He was into life coaching in a customized approach. He was a gift from the universe.
Though I didn´t know Ian personally I will reinforce living my life with intention, in loving kindness and generosity. Phyllis Valdez
Mary Pasini
September 3, 2024
Ian was an incredibly self-less and generous soul. I had the privilege of spending time with him in Detroit for our annual techno pilgrimage and most recently we were able to connect in Chicago for some house music with close friends. My heart goes out to his family, friends, cats, and anyone else mourning this great loss. May our hearts be transformed by the love he shared with us. Rest easy.
With love always,
Mary
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Jacob Wolin
September 3, 2024
I´ve known Ian for about 8 years. He always believed in people and cared about them. The first time we met was in an uber on the way to New York. A few months later he told me he wanted to start mentoring me. I had no idea what it meant so I asked him, and he said you´ll find out with a grin on his face. I learned later that it meant we would become close friends, that he would teach me how to be a better man, and that he believed in me.
Over the years we reached many of the milestones and goals he had help me set up. He was getting ready to come out to Chicago so we could reach our next milestone with music, release the music we spent years writing and then start preforming it for the world to hear. He had recently shared with me that it was time to move on from his IT work and that he wanted to work in
and or video and film full time. And that he was so excited to start this journey.
Right up until the very end he was there for me. And I´m so grateful that I was able to be there with him in those last few minutes.
Thank you for everything Ian. Thank you for believing in me and for being a brother to me. Rest in peace and know that you are heavily missed and loved.
C
September 3, 2024
I knew Ian longer than most people, he saw people as resources before seeing them for anything else.
Diane Miller
September 2, 2024
I spent time with Forrest when he was about 10. I especially remember how smart he was and how he would calmly state what he knew and kind of wait for the rest of us to catch up and understand too. I have a grandson now who does that same thing and I love the energy of a child who has so much to calmly and generously share.
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