Forrest Anthony "Ian" Gibbs

Forrest Anthony "Ian" Gibbs obituary, Mishawaka, IN

Forrest Anthony "Ian" Gibbs

Forrest Gibbs Obituary

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Forrest "Ian" Anthony Gibbs, 40, of South Bend, unexpectedly passed after an accident on Thursday evening, August 29, 2024. He was born on Oct. 14, 1983, in Marquette, Michigan to Jeff Gibbs and Francie Rivette, and married Jeannine McGreevy on Dec. 19, 2011.
Ian grew up in part in an "off the grid" log house in near Marquette in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, and later in life Ian spoke often of returning to the Marquette area and how much he loved the quiet stillness of the world covered in snow. He loved exploring the wilderness of woods, waterfalls, and Lake Superior with his family. He first began improvising music on the piano at five years old. Books were an early obsession, and he would often bring home a dozen from the library. As a teenager he began to teach himself web design and computer programming. Ian also resided in the Flint and the Traverse City areas during his youth.
In 2009, Ian moved to South Bend, Indiana where he lived the rest of his days. He also fell in love with the big city. and often went to Chicago and Detroit for music festivals and shows, and spending time with close friends. Electronic music was one of the great loves of his life. Whether seeing his favorite artists live, building an enormous collection of vinyl and cassette tapes, or endlessly play his synthesizers and music production software, Ian's passion for music gave him great joy.
Some of Ian's other hobbies were video games, music, and books - particularly anything sci-fi - running and biking. In recent years, Ian set out on a quest to make the best coffee he possibly could, continuously tinkering with equipment and testing different strategies with his espresso machine.
Ian was intense in everything he did. Everyone who knew him remembers long hours of debate and discussion about everything from politics to philosophy, to society.
However, what Ian will be remembered for more than anything is his generosity. In the days following his death, stories began pouring out of everyone he knew of his irresistible drive to help everyone around him. Whether it was helping someone move out of their house on short notice, taking people into his home who needed a place to stay, Ian did whatever he felt like he could do to make people's lives better. Ian was always gifting people things-computers, water bottles, pizza ovens, or sound bars.
His generosity extended to animals as well, especially cats. A can of food for a hungry stray cat would turn into multiple hot huts in the backyard.
Ian was incredibly devoted to his wife, his family, and his friends. His influence will live on in all the lives he touched, and none of us would be the same without having met him. He will be missed for his dry humor, his kindness, his intelligence, and the inner strength that allowed him to keep on working to better the people and the world around him, in spite of all the personal challenges he himself was facing.
Ian is survived by his wife, Jeannine, his parents Jeff Gibbs and Francie Rivette, sister Maureen Gibbs, aunts Valorie Gibbs, Dawn Marra, and Kelly (Steve) Ashe, half-sibling Nate, and beloved cousins and in-laws, and his "Uncle" Mike. He was preceded in death by his older brother, Aaron Gibbs-Rivette.
A time to celebrate Ian's life is scheduled for Tuesday, September 3, 2024, from 4-6 with a small service planned for 6pm at Wells and Cruz Family Funeral Home, Mishawaka. According to Ian's wishes cremation will follow services.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be sent to the Humane Society. To light a virtual candle, share a story of Ian's life, or offer a message of comfort for his family, please visit the Tribute Tab on the funeral home website.
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September 19, 2024

Lindsay Colman posted to the memorial.

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September 9, 2024

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Lindsay Colman

September 19, 2024

I've been trying to figure out what to say here.

Ian was a kind soul. A helpful soul. He was someone I was proud to call a friend.

He made my pilgrimage to Detroit for techno Christmas a reality in 2023 when I couldn't for myself. And asked nothing I'm return for my day he had made amazing.

From the short time I knew Ian, he was generous, caring, and engaging with our group of friends. Never afraid to share his thoughts, views, or beliefs.
He was smart, and was also willing to seek help in areas he knew he was weak in, which is a rare trait in my experience. He was a mentor to a friend of mine.

Ian, you will be missed by many.

To Ian's wife, family, and Sam. I hope you all were able to know the side of Ian that our little techno family did.

Marc Vosecky

September 11, 2024

My first memory of Ian was being introduced to him by Pete. I was homeless, and lost, and Ian decided that wasn't going to fly, and gave me a home. He introduced me to music production and helped me discover how much I loved doing it.
I will miss him deeply.

Megan Little

September 9, 2024

Ian entered my life at a very dark time. I was struck by the compassion and empathy he showed me, and by extension, everything and everyone else in his life. Even if he didn't want to admit it, to the trained eye it was obvious he held on to the pure, unfettered sweetness we all possess as children. This "boyishness" presented itself in many ways - the all or nothing effort he put into everything he did, his constant desire to learn, the sense of wonder in his eyes when something would surprise him, and above all else, a great courage to do right by others, even if that cost him something in return.

The two of us formed a bond over our specific taste in the arts and aesthetics. We delved into each other's favorite music genres, and sending each other songs and records began to feel like a love language in itself. I've never known another person to throw themselves into the unknown so completely, eager to understand, to really "get it" and feel the messages and emotional weight of the art he consumed.

Underneath the stoicism and snark on the surface, Ian had a warm, tender side to himself. He may not have been big on using words to communicate his emotions, but he knew how to make you feel understood and cared for. A softening of the eyes would speak volumes, or when he'd put his hand on your shoulder or gently touch his fingers to yours, he was telling you you were seen. You always knew you were safe with him.

I'll finish here by saying this: Ian, you are so loved. You've left your mark on me, on all of us. Your memory will burn bright in the hearts of all who knew you, a steadfast light to lead us out of the dark abyss of your absence.

Megan Little

September 4, 2024

Megan Little

September 4, 2024

Phyllis Valdez

September 3, 2024

Leaving us is a bittersweet reminder to strive to make his life count by living our lives with intention. It is apparent from stories shared he wanted that. He was into life coaching in a customized approach. He was a gift from the universe.

Though I didn´t know Ian personally I will reinforce living my life with intention, in loving kindness and generosity. Phyllis Valdez

Mary Pasini

September 3, 2024

Ian was an incredibly self-less and generous soul. I had the privilege of spending time with him in Detroit for our annual techno pilgrimage and most recently we were able to connect in Chicago for some house music with close friends. My heart goes out to his family, friends, cats, and anyone else mourning this great loss. May our hearts be transformed by the love he shared with us. Rest easy.

With love always,
Mary

Jacob Wolin

September 3, 2024

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Jacob Wolin

September 3, 2024

I´ve known Ian for about 8 years. He always believed in people and cared about them. The first time we met was in an uber on the way to New York. A few months later he told me he wanted to start mentoring me. I had no idea what it meant so I asked him, and he said you´ll find out with a grin on his face. I learned later that it meant we would become close friends, that he would teach me how to be a better man, and that he believed in me.

Over the years we reached many of the milestones and goals he had help me set up. He was getting ready to come out to Chicago so we could reach our next milestone with music, release the music we spent years writing and then start preforming it for the world to hear. He had recently shared with me that it was time to move on from his IT work and that he wanted to work in
and or video and film full time. And that he was so excited to start this journey.

Right up until the very end he was there for me. And I´m so grateful that I was able to be there with him in those last few minutes.

Thank you for everything Ian. Thank you for believing in me and for being a brother to me. Rest in peace and know that you are heavily missed and loved.

C

September 3, 2024

I knew Ian longer than most people, he saw people as resources before seeing them for anything else.

Diane Miller

September 2, 2024

I spent time with Forrest when he was about 10. I especially remember how smart he was and how he would calmly state what he knew and kind of wait for the rest of us to catch up and understand too. I have a grandson now who does that same thing and I love the energy of a child who has so much to calmly and generously share.

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