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Jack Kelly
September 8, 2025
I met Gary when I was in 7th grade and he had just arrived at Wayne Central High School in Ontario. He started a cross-country program there, and we were undefeated in the county for six years. He was always enthusiastic and upbeat and positive. Most of all, he always cared -- about his students, about the guys on the team (unfortunately girls were not allowed to participate in those years), and about people in general. He was, in the hi.ghest sense, a decent human being and a great coach. Sorry to hear of his passing, but he lives on in many memories. - Jack Kelly, Wayne '67
Michael Cass
September 7, 2025
Our condolences to the Thompson family on your loss. I ran cross country
at Wayne Central HS on his team in the early sixties. I'm still catching my breath! Great coach, great person, he will be missed. Very sorry for your loss. Michael & Lynne Cass
Mark Hainsworth
September 4, 2025
To the Thompson family, please accept my heartfelt condolences. Gary´s passing has saddened both my wife (Laura Foster Hainsworth) and I. It also brought back some wonderful memories of your husband and father. Laura and I were chemistry students of "Mr. Thompson" and both went on to get advanced degrees in Chemistry and Chemical and Environmental Engineering (Laura, PhD from University of Maryland)(Mark, MS, University of Maryland). In fact, from our AP Chemistry class (Gary´s first year to teach the AP course) there were 3 PhDs, 3 Chemical Engineers, 1 Industrial Hygienist, 3 teachers, and one graduate from MIT. That is pretty remarkable and not just a coincidence. Gary was an inspiring teacher who guided his students through difficult content with skill and wit. I also remember Gary sharing his photos of the national parks and one in particular, a picture of the cable route on Half Dome in Yosemite Valley, inspired me to visit and climb those cables several years later.
I was lucky to be a member of the track team and have Gary as a coach. His planning and attention to detail was remarkable. He coached and encouraged in such a way that you always wanted to do your best for him. I remember him telling me to get a second place in a race and when I took first he was frustrated with me. I didn´t realize that he wanted me to save my energy for later races that he needed points for the overall team score. It was about the team and not about individual races. I have applied that and many other lessons to my life since then.
He was kind as well. I remember a time when my girlfriend (now my wife) needed a moment to talk in between classes. He recognized that what we were discussing was important, left us in his room and told us to shut the door when we left. I thought that was amazingly human of him and solidified me as a Gary Thompson fan for life! Thank you for sharing him with us and I hope that he realized how much he influenced his many students and athletes in positive ways. Sincerely, Mark Hainsworth
Michael Griffith
September 1, 2025
A very big hug to the Thompson family! Coach and Teacher Thompson was an incredible human being. I got to experience his chemistry teaching, coaching, and photography. The best part of his chemistry classes is when he showed us incredible photos he had taken of some of America's gems in National, State, and local parks. I'm sorry but I remember the photos more than the chemistry. A number of years ago my Mom gifted me one of his framed prints.
I remember Gary Thompson the most as my cross-country and track coach. He knew how to bring the Victor team together and score as many points as possible at meets. Mark Hainsworth and I were just remembering at one meet he asked a few of us to run multiple events and for certain events to hold back some (i.e., didn't need to win every race). He wanted us to score points in all of our events but not overdo it in one event to mess up another one. He was a brilliant Coach with his strategies!
During HS, my family life went through troubling times. Running for Coach Thompson was what kept me together through discipline and setting and reaching goals. Through his encouragement, I felt motivated to succeed. I learned the lessons of sportsmanship and team camaraderie. In the end, he was a valuable teacher in several aspects of my life.
Gary was the Class of 83's graduation speaker. Curt Brantl recalls him mixing up a jar of water and dirt. The dirt came from cleats of hard-working athletes and other sources. Then he mixed up the jar to make mud. His message was "Don't muddle around" in life. It took me awhile to learn that lesson ...
The legacy left behind by Gary Thompson is incredible! He will be missed tremendously.
Michael Griffith, VHS, Class of 1983
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Jim Strauss
August 30, 2025
A Victor hero. "Nail it to the wall!" Was Gary´s cheer before any test his students took. Always cheerful, enthusiastic. It was an honor to be his colleague.
Danny C '89
August 30, 2025
Mr Thompson helped me turn around my life in 10th grade. I was a student in his Chemistry class. He saw a picture at the HS Open House of me running the 50 yard dash. He recruited me to start running for VCS. I wasn't exceptional, but it did help me become the man I am today. Your passing saddens me, I still have one of your framed Mendon Ponds prints in my collection.
Sally Wood Winslow
August 30, 2025
Gary was a fine friend, and such a fine photographer! My heart is with you Phyllis! Sally Wood Winslow

Lesley Nelson (maiden name)
August 29, 2025
My sincere condolences to all the Thompson family. Thank you for sharing your husband and father with hundreds and hundreds of young athletes and students over the years. Gary Thompson was a truly great man. A man of many talents. He shined by being a role model to many and because of that his spirit lives on. Gary Thompson was like a second father to me during high school at Victor in the mid `80s. I was blessed to be one of "his runners". I missed him when I left for college and was so honored to have him attend my wedding a few years later.The world is a better place because Gary Thompson lived! His spirit and goodness lives on in all those that were blessed to know him.
Marge & Chuck Nelson
August 29, 2025
Our thoughts & prayers to all of Gary's family & friends. All three of the Nelson children had Gary as a wonderful teacher and coach in the Victor Central School District. I also had the pleasure of knowing & working with Gary as a school board member for six years. A kind, caring, devoted teacher & coach who has shaped the lives of hundreds of students in such a positive manner. His artistic talents were also amazing. He lives on in all who knew & loved him. Marge & Chuck Nelson
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