George Robert Gray

George Robert Gray obituary, Houston, TX

George Robert Gray

George Gray Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Klein Funeral Home - Champions on Jan. 9, 2026.
In Loving Memory of George Robert Gray

October 29, 1950 – January 6, 2026

George Robert Gray, a devoted husband, loving father, faithful servant of Jesus Christ, and man of unwavering integrity, passed on from this life into eternal glory at his home in Houston, Texas, on the evening of January 6, 2026.

George was born on October 29, 1950, the beloved son of the late John Laurence Gray and Nancy Ann Gray. He was raised on a cherished family farm in Decatur, Illinois, alongside his sister, Rebecca Susan Gray (preceded him in death).

Those early years were filled with many special memories, including treasured times spent growing up with his cousins, Peggy and Howard Loveless, memories he carried with him throughout his life. From his earliest years, George learned the values of hard work, humility, and perseverance-virtues that shaped every season of his life and defined the man he became.

In 1968, shortly after high school, George was appointed as a cadet and Port Security Man in the United States Coast Guard, serving aboard the USCGC Eagle-"The Tall Ship"-in Yorktown, Virginia. As part of a deployable specialized forces unit, his role focused on expeditionary security and anti-terrorism, reflecting his early commitment to courage, service, and the protection of others.

He later attended Odessa College and then went on to Texas A&M University. While at Texas A&M, George worked as a computer programmer for the university from 1973 to 1977, where he played a key role in replacing the VSAM Goldplate budget system with the IBM-IMS networked database system. He earned his Bachelor of Science degree in Computer Science in 1976. Following graduation, George continued his service to the public by working at the Texas State Comptroller's Office in Austin, contributing to the statewide sales tax system.

In 1983, George began a distinguished career at Lockheed Martin, where he contributed to the Command Support Programs (CSP) and supported the Tomahawk Cruise Missile system, the Over-the-Horizon (OTH) system for the Tactical Flag Command Center (TFCC), and several other critical defense initiatives. During a special year-long assignment in California, God orchestrated a meeting that would forever change his life. George met the love of his life, Shaheen, and also received the precious gift of a beloved step-daughter, Mahreen, whom he loved and cherished as his own. George and Shaheen were married on Catalina Island on April 8, 1988, beginning a beautiful marriage that spanned 37 years. Together, they modeled Christ-centered love, faithfulness, and devotion, inspiring countless couples through their example.

George and Shaheen shared a deep passion for global missions and the advancement of God's Kingdom. They faithfully invested their time and resources into mission work, with a special calling toward Pakistan, where they supported church plants and water wells that brought both spiritual hope and physical provision to countless lives.

In 1990, George joined BMC Software as a Product Development Author, where he served faithfully for the next 36 years. His work included critical projects such as Application Restart Control and Restart Advisor, helping automate and manage application, agent, and batch job restarts to preserve data integrity, efficiency, and system reliability. George was widely known for his diligence, excellence, and leadership, often serving as a trusted liaison between teams in India and the United States. His colleagues respected him not only for his technical expertise, but even more for his kindness, humility, and integrity.

For over 23 years, George was a devoted member of Victory Christian Center, where he faithfully worshiped and walked in fellowship with the body of Christ.

Above all else, George was a man who loved the Lord with his whole heart. His faith was not merely professed, but lived-evident in his generosity, quiet strength, unwavering commitment to truth, and Christlike love for others. He was a devoted husband and father who would do anything for his family, and a rare believer who embodied the teachings of Scripture in everyday life. To know George was to be encouraged and strengthened in faith. He truly ran his race well and finished it faithfully.

George is survived by his beloved wife, Shaheen Gray, and his cherished daughter, Mahreen Shamim.

A wake will be held at Klein Funeral Home and Memorial 16131 Champion Forest Dr., Spring, TX 77379 on January 14, 2025, from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m.

A funeral service celebrating George's life and his victory in Christ will be held at Victory Christian Center (VCC) 11420 Cutten Road, Houston, TX 77066 on January 15 at 10:00 a.m.

Please note this will be a closed-casket service.

All are welcome to attend either service.

"He is not here; He has risen."

- Luke 24:6

George is not gone-he is home, fully in the presence of his Savior.

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January 16, 2026

Steve Stewart posted to the memorial.

January 15, 2026

Connie Lilian posted to the memorial.

January 15, 2026

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Steve Stewart

January 16, 2026

I was very saddened to learn of George's sudden passing. The world's great loss is now heaven's great gain!

I worked with George for a short period of time at BMC Software supporting the product has was the absolute master of (Application Restart/Control). Due to my lack of experience with ARC, I often relied heavily on George's input in connection with the various questions and issues received from the user community. In all cases, he provided accurate and timely information and was always patient when dealing with my limited understanding of things.

Rest in Peace George, you will be sorely missed!

Connie Lilian

January 15, 2026

Rest in peace my friend you will be missed.

Gouraw Banker

January 15, 2026

Condolences to his family. Worked with him since last 5 years. He was always calm, clear and confidence.
He didn´t just lead, he inspired. He will be remembered with deep gratitude and affection.
George, You´ll be missed not just for what you knew-but for who you were. Will miss you at every teams call, every chat.....

Teresa Crum

January 13, 2026

I was so sad to hear of George's passing. I worked with him in the 90's at BMC and was always amazed by his intellect and quiet strength and humility. He will be missed. Condolences to his family.

Andy Andrews

January 11, 2026

Over my 30+ years working with George, I was continually amazed by his insights, thoroughness, and desire to move Application Restart Control from its infancy to the successful product that it has become.

A fond memory of my many interactions with George is when I would ask him something, or make a suggestion, he would pause for an "uncomfortable" period of time before replying. During that pause, his mind was probably tracing the logic flow through half a dozen modules, or designing something on the fly. When he finally gave me an answer, it was ALWAYS right.

I´m glad our paths crossed.... RIP George

John O'Dowd

January 10, 2026

Having worked with George for over 30 years at BMC Software, I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of his passing. We have been working together on a large project the past year and George was the ultimate professional and great leader on his team. His legacy at BMC is huge. He was the lead developer of our Application Restart Control products and responsible for well over a million lines of product code. He will be missed terribly.

It was a privilege to know George personally, he was a thoughtful and kind man. My deepest condolences to his family and friends for your loss.

Marty Gonzalez

January 9, 2026

Condolences to his family. Fair winds and following seas my friend.

Bill Mileski

January 9, 2026

Outstanding human being. A pleasure to know.
Condolences to family.

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