Mr. Gilbert Hall "Buddy" Efird Jr.

Mr. Gilbert Hall "Buddy" Efird Jr. obituary, Monroe, NC

Mr. Gilbert Hall "Buddy" Efird Jr.

Gilbert Efird Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Holland Funeral Service & Crematory - Monroe on Oct. 18, 2024.

Publish in a newspaper

Gilbert Hall Efird Jr. (Buddy), 86, died on September 19, at Atrium Health Union Hospital in Monroe. He was born at Mercy Hospital in Charlotte on April 30, 1938 to Juanita Meares and Gilbert Hall Efird. Buddy was a descendent of John Query, a signer of the Mecklenburg Declaration of Independence. Buddy died of a rare type of cancer, dermatologic sarcoma of the head.
Buddy grew up in Monroe, attended the Monroe City schools and received his high school diploma in 1956 from Wingate Junior College. After high school Buddy was drafted in the US Army and served in Korea. Following his service he attended Wingate Junior College. Buddy joined his father in the family business, Efird Marble & Granite Works. In later years, he formed his own company, Efird Monuments.
Buddy was preceded in death by his parents, his wife, JoAnn Efird and his two son, Gilbert Hall Efird III, and Michael Jordan Efird. He is survived by his sisters, Mary Efird Kepley of Winston Salem, Juanita Efrid of Charlotte, stepson, Fred Motley III of Shelby, cousin, John E. Efrid Jr. of Monroe, three granddaughters, three great-grand grandchildren, and his beloved cat, Tina.
The family would like to express heartfelt thanks to Buddy's two Gentiva Hospice nurses, Kelly Bednarik, and Lee Kiser for their devotion, love and exceptional care of Buddy. And to his dear friend, Patsy Witherspoon for her loving care.
There will be a private family graveside service on Saturday, October 26, followed by a visitation at 3:00pm in the Hospitality Room of Central United Methodist Church, 801 S. Hayne Street.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions to the Humane Society of Union County, 4015 Waxhaw Highway, Monroe, NC 28112.
Arrangements are in the care of Holland Funeral Service & Crematory. Online condolences may be shared at www.hollandfuneralservice.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Gilbert Efird's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

October 25, 2024

Kelly Bednarik posted to the memorial.

October 25, 2024

Kelly Bednarik posted to the memorial.

October 18, 2024

Holland Funeral Service & Crematory - Monroe posted an obituary.

2 Entries

Kelly Bednarik

October 25, 2024

I will never forget the time I spent with Mr. Efird. I loved listening to his stories while I provided the care he needed at home. He will be greatly missed. Sending my condolences to his family and friends.

Kelly Bednarik

October 25, 2024

Mr. Efird was such a blessing to care for. He was funny but yet quite stubborn. I loved hearing all of his stories he told me while caring for him. I could just sit and listen to his many stories. He will be greatly missed. Sending my condolences to all who cared deeply for him.

Showing 1 - 2 of 2 results

Holland Funeral Service & Crematory - Monroe

806 Circle Dr., Monroe, NC 28112

Make a Donation
in Gilbert Efird's name

How to support Gilbert's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Gilbert Efird's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Gilbert Efird's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

October 25, 2024

Kelly Bednarik posted to the memorial.

October 25, 2024

Kelly Bednarik posted to the memorial.

October 18, 2024

Holland Funeral Service & Crematory - Monroe posted an obituary.