Mr. Grover Randall Stem Sr.
Mr. Grover Randall Stem Sr.
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A Memorial Service will be 3:00 PM Saturday, January 17, 2026 at Feldhaus Memorial Chapel.
Visitation will be from 12 noon until service time Saturday at the funeral home.
Mr. Stem was born November 29, 1951 to the late Grover McKee Stem and Annie Lou Robinson Stem.
In addition to his parents, he is preceded in death by his wife, Sheila Bates Stem ;two sisters; Sanda Lott and Vickie Stem Hendricks, and a daughter, Lisa Michelle Mullins.
He is survived by his son, Grover R. (Lisa) Stem, Jr.; a significant other, Sandra Cothran; five sisters, Martha Sexton, Wanda Melton, Christine Foster, Glenda Dillard, and Judy Benefield; one brother, Phillip Stem; numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren, as well as a host of nieces and nephews.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Julie Baker
January 17, 2026
Dearest Sandy and Randy´s family, I´m so lucky to have known "Mr. Randy" and enjoyed his great sense of humor. I know he will be greatly missed but such wonderful memories we have.
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Sandra Foster Boyd
January 16, 2026
I´m Chris´ sister-in-law. You all have my deepest sympathy. I´m sorry that I won´t be able to be at the funeral!
Carol Allen
January 15, 2026
It has been a pleasure to have Mr. Randy as my neighbor, he was one of the sweetest people I have ever met. He will be greatly missed. Sending hugs and prayers to Miss Sandy.
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