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Harriet Pitlik Obituary

Harriet Pitlik, 95, of Cedar Rapids, formerly of Mount Vernon, died on March 22, 2023, at peace. Private family graveside services will be held at a later date. The family is being cared for by Stewart Baxter Funeral & Memorial Services, Mount Vernon. Harriet is survived by her children, Pamela (Bob) Byersdorfer of Fairbank, Iowa, Greg (Joyce) Pitlik of Morton, Ill., and Andrea (Wayne Courtney) Covington of Kensington, Md.; grandchildren, Adam (Amanda) Byersdorfer, Benjamin Byersdorfer, Caleb (Rosanna) Byersdorfer, Meredith (Michael) Torres, Tyler Pitlik, Larry (Tracy) Covington and Blake (Sarah) Covington; great-grandchildren, Evan, Braden, Jacob, Ilse, Anna Lena, Edgar, Frederick, Quintin, Olivia, Michael, Mitchell, Faith, Matthew, Merrill, Hope, Kate, Ruby and Killian; brother, John (Audrey) Ruby of Laguna Niguel, Calif.; and many nieces and nephews. Harriet Ann Ruby was born July 25, 1927, in Chicago, Ill., daughter of Leo and Mary (Roche) Ruby. On Jan. 10, 1948, she married Merrill Pitlik, her life's love. They had three children and enjoyed 66 years of marriage before his passing on May 17, 2015. Harriet graduated from Roosevelt High School in Cedar Rapids before pursuing her bachelor's from Cornell College, and working towards her master's at University of Iowa. She taught third grade at Mount Vernon School District over 14 years before her retirement in 1982. In her spare time, Harriet enjoyed gardening, card club and wintering in Arizona. Her best memories were her time spent with her grandchildren. Harriet was preceded in death by her husband, Merrill; parents, Leo and Mary Ruby; siblings and spouses, Pat (Marv) Morse and Dick (Shirley) Ruby; and great-grandchild, Maximilian. Memorials may be directed to St. John's Catholic Church, Mount Vernon or Hospice of Mercy. Please share your support and memories with Harriet's family on her Tribute Wall at www.stewartbaxter.com under obituaries.

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Published by The Gazette on Mar. 26, 2023.

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Michael Ruby

April 4, 2023

I always enjoyed seeing Aunt Harriet and uncle Pit. Distance kept our families apart too much but I have very fond memories of visits to Mt Vernon. I hope Greg, Pam, Andy and families are ok. Losing a mother is very difficult but memories of her will live on.

Rita Suchomel Dudley

March 26, 2023

I loved being in Harriet’s presence as I was growing up in Mt. Vernon. She was so gracious and welcoming, soft-spoken, but always smiling. I never heard her raise her voice to anyone. Her strawberry patch was evidence of her strong work ethic. And what a treat! She raised three great kids who were fun to be with as I grew up. The world will miss her.

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