Harvey E. Stillings

Harvey E. Stillings obituary, Reading, MA

Harvey E. Stillings

Harvey Stillings Obituary

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Mr. Harvey E. Stillings, a longtime resident of Reading, passed away unexpectedly on March 31, 2014 at home, at age 66. Harvey was born on June 6, 1947 in Stoneham. He was raised in Reading where he graduated from Reading High School. Following the tradition of his father and grandfather, Harvey began working at the Mt. Washington Cog Railway at age 16. He was a proud third generation railroad man, and worked as an Engineer for many years. Harvey was also a member of the National Guard Reserve. Harvey's pride and joy was his home. He found particular comfort in being outside in his well cared for garden, and planting or re-planting his favorite flower, day lilies. He spent hours outside pruning his flowering plants, and watering the hundreds of lilies that surrounded his home. He was also quite happy to climb aboard his riding mower, and trim the grass into perfect patterns. Harvey enjoyed just being in the sun whether on his back deck, or at the beach in Aruba. Harvey had a strong connection and appreciation for his job as an Engineer, and his devotion to the job led him to make several lasting friendships with coworkers. In their free time, they bonded over a burger at Brodie's Pub in Peabody or a lobster roll at Lobstaland in Gloucester. He also enjoyed day trips to Old Orchard Beach with his childhood friend, Jack. Harvey was the cherished son of Rachel H. Stillings of Murrells Inlet, SC, and the late Hugh W. Stillings. Dear brother of Nancy E. O'Connell and her late husband Charles of Melrose, and Robert L. Stillings and his wife Eleanor of MI. Also survived by several nieces, nephews, grandnieces, grandnephews, and longtime friends. Relatives and friends will gather in honor and remembrance of Harvey's life at the First Baptist Church, 561 Main St., Melrose where his Funeral Service will be celebrated on Friday, April 4 at 12:30PM. Gifts in Harvey's memory may be made to the American Heart Association, 300 5th Avenue, Ste. 6, Waltham, MA 02451.

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The way it was.........

Jack Heselton

April 5, 2014

Just getting the sad news of my long lost friend. Harv and I go back to the years working on the Cog Railway at Mt Washington NH. We were like 15 & 16 years old. And of course, Harvey and Tom teaching me to run a locomotives at BET when they were hostling engines. He was a great instructor and engineer.
Our deepest condolences to Harveys freinds and family. You will be missed....

Robert (Conductor) Morani

April 4, 2014

To the Stillings family My deepest condolences to you. May Harvey RIP. I had the pleasure of working with him on the B & M railroad and amtrack. He was always a gentleman and a great engineer. He will always remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Mark Jackson

April 3, 2014

You sure were a funny guy...I looked forward to your entertaining visits each night at the store. Thing won't be the same without you.... someday I'll catch the same train and we'll see each other again. Rest in Peace Harvey.

Don Scribner

April 3, 2014

This one is for you big guy .. "H.E.S." as the plates on his p/u would read!

William Keay

April 3, 2014

I am proud to have known and worked with Harvey. He was a very good Engineer, Instructor Engineer, and Railroader in general, and many of us youngsters benefited greatly from his tutelage. Please accept my sincere condolences. Bill Keay BLET Division 57 Member

Michael and Marie Gesnaldo

April 2, 2014

We shared many great times together . We will never forget . We will miss you my friend

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