Helen Calzolari

Helen Calzolari obituary, Milford, MA

Helen Calzolari

Helen Calzolari Obituary

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Helen Calzolari, a beacon of love and kindness, passed away peacefully on June 18, 2025, at the age of 73, in Douglas, MA. Born on July 1, 1951, in Hopkinton, MA, Helen was the cherished daughter of the late Fred and Irene (Warren) Chapman. Her life was a testament to the power of love, family, and dedication.
Helen was a graduate of Hopkinton High School. She had previously lived in Worcester before moving to Charlton recently. For many years, she was a resident of Vero Beach, FL and had also lived in the Mansfield area and Douglas.
Her career in finance with the former Sterling Assoc. in Sutton spanned many years, where she was known for her unwavering and loyal support for her colleagues in a small close-knit office.
Family was the cornerstone of Helen's life. She was the loving mother of Brett F. McIntyre and his wife Heather of Douglas, and Jason J. McIntyre of Worcester. Helen's world was brightened by the joy of her two grandchildren, Derek and Kaiden, who will carry her legacy of love forward. She was a devoted sister to Bertha Chaffee and her husband Allan of Douglas, Kathy Jackman and her partner George Wesinger of Hopkinton, Lil and her late husband Bob Duchaine of Norton, Irene Thompson of Vero Beach, FL, Fred Chapman and his wife Roxanne of Holliston, and George Chapman and his wife Laura of Uxbridge. Helen was predeceased by her beloved son Derek R. McIntyre, her husband David M. Calzolari, and her brother Clifton Chapman.
Helen's love for the beach in Florida and in New England was well-known, as were the cherished moments she spent surrounded by her family. Her presence was a source of comfort and joy, and her thoughtful nature made every family gathering memorable. Helen's love extended beyond her immediate family, touching the lives of her siblings, in-laws, nieces, nephews, great nieces, great nephews and friends.
A graveside service will be private in Vernon Grove Cemetery, Vernon St., Milford.
To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Helen, please visit our floral store.
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