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Jacob grew up in Farmington CT, class of 2006 and received his Criminal Justice Degree at Suffolk University in Boston. He had recently started working for Vermont Fish & Wildlife. He was known for his quick wit, his infectious smile, kind and compassionate spirit and big heart.
"Make your life an exclamation. Not an explanation."
Jacob was proceeded in death by Rosemarie Pandisher, Brooke Backman, Raymond Carnelli Sr. and Bill Rempe. Jacob leaves behind many, Aunts, Uncles and Cousins. Gina Scelza, Jodi Rempe, Gigi & Bill Fox, Jackie & Peter Baranowski. Blaire Backman & Alan, Hailey Baronowski, Luke Rempe, John & Kate Rempe, Bill Fox Jr., Keith Fox. As well as Brent and Stephen Carnelli.
A memorial service will be held at 11am Saturday December 31st at Saint Patrick's Church, 110 Main St. Farmington CT. 06032. Jacob will be privately interred at a later date with Nixon. Donations in Lieu of flowers can be made to Traumatic Brain Injury Research Center at Johns Hopkins University 624 N. Broadway, 5th floor Baltimore MD. 21205
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Susan Goldberg
December 22, 2023
Remembering Jacob and sending love to his family.
Geri Carnelli
October 19, 2023
Carnelli
February 6, 2023
"What can we say?"
Your words and messages are very comforting for our Jacob.
Thank you.
(Carnelli Family)
Let´s keep connected anytime.
Scott McManus CO1
January 25, 2023
Condolences to his family. Worked Vt. DOC with him. Stand up and solid Officer and Man.
Melissa Lukanik
January 16, 2023
Geri,
My deepest condolences to you and your family. There are no words. Please know that I am thinking of you and hoping you find peace and comfort in your loving family and friends.
Shari Swagel
January 3, 2023
Raymond, Geri Lynn, Jeremiah and Jordan.....what a devastating loss for your family. Time and distance separate us, but not the love or caring we have for you. In reading the condolences here, the loss is ours in not having known your Jacob for the amazing young man who lit up a room, brought joy and laughter and lived life with curiosity. Saying "I'm sorry" seems far too small. But I am. Forever.
Tracey Barlow
January 2, 2023
Jeri and Ray, Jeremiah and Jordan,
My heart breaks for your family. Jacob was a kind young man, even when I had him in high school as a sophomore. His knock-out smile and warm personality brightened everyone's day. Please know that Jacob and your entire family are in my prayers.
Louise Kowitch & Mac Campbell
January 2, 2023
Dear Geri, Roy, Jeremiah and Jordan,
Jake was one of the kindest, most open-minded and gentle students I had the privilege to get to know at FHS. He brought the light of joy and curiosity to the classroom and to his friends. I am very sorry for your loss of such a rare gem of a young man. Please know how much he touched the lives of so many in such positive ways. Our deepest condolences, Louise Kowitch and Mac Campbell
Jen Wood & Jeff Gawle
January 1, 2023
Our hearts go out to you. We are so sorry for your loss, and you are in our thoughts.
Glenn Chapman
December 31, 2022
My deepest condolences I had no idea !
Stephanie, Cory and Kirk Duchesneau
December 31, 2022
Many years of soccer games, yelling on the sidelines for the team and the wonderful camaraderie with the boys and the families. Jacob was always happy and kind to all. As Cory said when he heard of Jacob's passing-"He was such a good person." Our family is so saddened by this news and we love you and hope that you can find peace. He touched us all.
Glenn E Chapman hi
December 31, 2022
My deepest condolences to the carnnelli family
Lynn O'Connell
December 31, 2022
I am so sorry for your loss. I always loved your family.
Lonnie
December 31, 2022
May Jacob find himself in a place of peace. He was an outstanding man. I pray for the family. I am thinking if you all today.
Elin Warwick
December 30, 2022
May God be close to you now, for strength and comfort- and may His peace overflow in the days to come.
With deepest sympathy.
Elin Warwick
Elin Warwick
December 30, 2022
With deepest sympathy for your loss. May God be close to you now, for strength and comfort - and May His peace overflow in the days to come.
Kim
December 30, 2022
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Lori
December 30, 2022
Geri Lynn & Ray, I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words that can ease the pain you must be feeling. Please know I´m thinking of the family & have offered prayers. Love, Lori
Emily
December 30, 2022
Sending love to the Carnelli family and all the friends who loved Jake. He could lift the energy of any room he walked into. Memories of running around Boston with Jake, Jordan & crew will always make me smile. Miss you buddy.
Lisa Ercoli
December 30, 2022
Dear Geri and family,
Sending you prayers for strength as you find your way through each day.
Lisa Ercoli
Susan Goldberg
December 30, 2022
Sending my deepest sympathy.
Rebecca Shomo
December 30, 2022
Dear Geri and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about this. Prayers for you all in this difficult time.
Rebecca Shomo
Annette and Glenn Riccardi
December 30, 2022
Geri, Ray and family. No words can express the sorrow at this very difficult time. May you forever cherish his beautiful memories and all those special moments. Jacob is in your hearts, as well as ours. The Lord´s blessings to all always and forever.
Eric Candels
December 30, 2022
I worked with Carnelli @ CRCF. He was always smiling, and was a pleasure to work around. Liked to joke and have fun as well. Sorry for your're loss. Sending prayers to the entire Family and Friends.
Eric Candels
Kate Christolini
December 29, 2022
Geri, I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Theresa Matava
December 29, 2022
Dear Geri,
I know you through the library over the years and treasure our talks of our families - my heart breaks for you - know that you are in my thoughts and prayers -
Terry Matava
Julie Narus
December 29, 2022
Geri, Ray, Jordan, Jeremiah, Dana, and Mac, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and love are with you all during this difficult time. Love, Joe & Julie Narus
Leslie Imse
December 29, 2022
Thinking of the Carnelli family with prayers. Geri, Ray, Jeremiah, and Jordan, so sorry for your family loss. Hoping you can let good memories give you strength.
Leslie Imse
Dennis Marshall
December 29, 2022
Ray and Geri. Sincere condolences to you and your family.
Marguerite O'Brien
December 29, 2022
Ray and Geri, I am so sorry for your loss. Jacob was a kind soul who will be solely missed. I will be praying for you and your family.
Barbara Ferrer
December 29, 2022
My deepest condolences Geri, to you and your family.
Barbara Ferrer
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Jacob smiling and enjoying life.
Cindi Agostino
December 28, 2022
So many memories of this sweet boy in school, sports fields, the neighborhood, family vacations, Florida, York, Maine and so much more. Love this boy, may he rest in peace. Thoughts & prayers to Ray and Geri, Jordan and Jeremiah and all the rest who loved Jacob.
With sincere condolences,
Cindi Agostino
Marybeth Petersen
December 28, 2022
Sending you love and strength as you mourn your beloved son
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