James "Jim" Edward "Jim" Spencer

James "Jim" Edward "Jim" Spencer obituary, Washington, OK

James "Jim" Edward "Jim" Spencer

James "Jim" Spencer Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by McNeil's Funeral Service on Aug. 4, 2025.

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James "Jim" Edward Spencer passed away on August 1, 2025, in Bethany, OK; he was born June 16, 1939, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, to Francis and Fay (McCornack) Spencer. Jim graduated from Southeast High School in 1957 and married fellow classmate, Dana Givens, on July 3, 1958.

He began working in the grocery business at the age of 14 for Humpty Dumpty and continued his career in the food industry. In 1 987, he purchased his first store, Spencer's, in Newcastle. He was well known for his community support.

Jim served as a member of the Oklahoma Food Brokers, President of Allied Food Club and chairman of the Oklahoma Grocers' Association.

He loved sports, especially OSU/OU and the OKC Thunder; he also loved to travel, play golf and spend time with family and friends.

Jim was a member of Holy Spirit Catholic Church in Mustang, where he served on the Finance Committee, and a member of Holy Angels Catholic Church in Angel Fire, NM.

Jim is survived by his wife, Dana, of 67 years; daughter, Sherrie Allen (Mitch) of Cogar, son, James "Spud" Spencer Jr (Sharon) of Cogar; grandchildren Shawn Allen of Yukon, Shane Allen (Stephanie) of Wayne, Chace Spencer (Melissa) of Mustang, Ashley Jackson of Yukon, Justin Spencer (Brooke) of Blanchard; seven great grandchildren; sisters, Mary Franklin (George) of Glenpool, and Flora Caruthers (Kent) of Oklahoma City; along with numerous nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents and brother, Don Spencer.

In lieu of flowers, please send donations in Jim's memory to: Holy Spirit Catholic Church - Building Fund, 1100 N Sara Road, Mustang, OK 73064.

Public Visitation

Monday, August 11th 2025 - 03:00 PM to 08:00 PM - McNeil's Funeral Service - 525 West State Highway 152, Mustang, OK 73064

Rosary

Monday, August 11th 2025 - 06:00 PM - McNeil's Funeral Service - 525 West State Highway 152, Mustang, OK 73064

Mass of Christian Burial

Tuesday, August 12th 2025 - 10:00 AM - Holy Spirit Catholic Church - 1212 N. Sara Road, Mustang, OK 73064

Graveside

Tuesday, August 12th 2025 - 02:00 PM - Washington, OK Cemetery - 23100 Eastern Avenue, Washington, OK 73093

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

McNeil's Funeral Service

525 West Highway 152 PO Box 1616, Mustang, OK 73064

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