James "Jim" Pernini

James "Jim" Pernini obituary, Chesapeake, VA

James "Jim" Pernini

James Pernini Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Hollomon-Brown Funeral Home - Tidewater Drive Chapel on Mar. 19, 2025.

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Captain James Kanellos "Jim" Pernini, USN Ret., passed away on March 18, 2025, in Virginia Beach, Virginia.
Jim began his distinguished naval career as an ensign after graduating from Northwestern University in 1964. He served 30 years on active duty, including a year-long tour in Saigon. Primarily serving in the Naval Surface Force on amphibious ships, he commanded both the USS Sumter (LST-1181) and the USS El Paso (LKA-117). His personal decorations included the Defense Superior Service Medal, the Legion of Merit with a gold star, and the Meritorious Service Medal with a gold star. He also earned master's degrees from Troy State University and the U.S. Naval War College. After retiring from the Navy, he spent ten years as a professor at the Joint Forces Staff College in Norfolk. A proud "Gator Navy" man, Jim was known for his meticulous planning and for His love of the sea and his time in the Navy was only eclipsed by the love of his family. He met his wife and love of his life, Keren Ott, at Northwestern, and they shared 60 years of marriage. Together, they raised two children, Kathy and David, who have been married for over 30 years to their spouses, Steve Smith and Teresa Brazzel. He was a devoted grandfather to six grandchildren-Alex, Sean, Taylor, Shelby, Holley, and Aiden-and a proud great-grandfather to Noah and Griffin.
He was an incredible cook and loved nothing more than to enjoy a good meal around a table with family and friends, entertaining everyone with tales of his many travels and adventures in the Navy. He and his wife traveled the world together, enjoyed golf and bridge with friends. He was keenly interested in the world around him, a scholar of history, and he never stopped learning or growing. He was also a passionate sports fan, and a most devoted supporter of UVA athletics. He and his son David, Class of 90, spent many happy (and sometimes excruciating) hours following their ups and downs. For more than 30 years, he was a faithful church leader at his beloved Old Donation Episcopal Church, and he was most proud of helping to establish a Becoming Beloved Community in the parish focused on the work of racial reconciliation, justice, and healing. He supported the endowment of the Rachal Scholarship, named after an enslaved woman, owned by the church in the 1700s, that is awarded to a local student enrolling at Norfolk State each year on Juneteenth. In lieu of flowers, Jim wished donations in his name to go to the Rachal Scholarship at Old Donation Episcopal Church, 4449 N. Witchduck Rd., Virginia Beach, VA 23455. Gifts can be made via check or through their online giving portal to Memorial Fund at https://www.osvhub.com/olddonation/giving/funds

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June 10, 2025

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March 23, 2025

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Bob Bullinger

June 10, 2025

Having served with Jim on the Francis Marion as a JO, I saw a man of integrity, honesty, humor and a role model to be emulated. I know that you´ve heard that final "Bravo Zulu". Well Done ... my good and faithful servant. One final salute, my friend.

Mark Harbour

June 3, 2025

Jim Pernini was the most honest person, and leader of great character that I ever met. Reporting to him on the Francis Marion during my years of service in the Navy was a great experience - and I learned a great deal from him. Prayers are going out to his family....Peace

William L Ridgeway Jr

March 23, 2025

Captain Pernini was an amazing Captain. The way he led our crew on the SUMTER was such a welcome change from his predecessor. I never once heard of him losing his temper at the crew. I admired him so much that I asked him to be the officiant at my first re-enlistmwnt on May 17, 1984. During that ceremony he also pinned me with my Enlisted Surface Warfare Specialist insignia. Such a proud moment too. He alsowas an inspector on INSURV(Ithink) and visited my electrical tool issue room on the USS WASP about 6 years later. He remembered me and we had a really nice conversation. CAPT Pernini will be sorely missed. Rest well sir, we have the watch.

David Elsholz

March 23, 2025

Fair winds and following seas Skipper, may you rest in peace.

Patrick Gardner

March 23, 2025

THE greatest CO I ever had. I spent the last 2 years with the Captain on the Sumter before I reenlisted and moved on. He was genuinely a very compassionate commander, caring for his crew. He will be missed.

Jeff Cowley

March 23, 2025

Very sorry to hear of the loss of Captain Pernini. I was stationed aboard the USS Sumter under his command and he was the best commanding officer I had in my 12 years in the Navy. Captain Pernini always treated his crew with respect and I know he took pride in his command and the gator Navy. Many great memories from our Med 84-85 deployment and all my time aboard the Sumter. Fair winds and following seas Captain Pernini and thank you for the positive influence you made in my life.

Bill Hedges

March 22, 2025

So sorry to hear this Captain Pernini was great CO and a tremendous influence in my live. My sincere condolences to his family.

Steve

March 22, 2025

So sorry to hear of James passing. I've had the the pleasure to serve under his command on the Sumter 83,84,85. One of the fairest men I have ever met. He made time for me, and made me feel a part of his crew. May we sail again on some future sea. Fair winds Captain Pernini !

Joe Owens

March 22, 2025

Joe Owens my condolences on the loss of a great man. I was his former CMAA on the El Paso. God Bless you all.

Jack Basford

March 22, 2025

Captain Pernini was without a Doubt the Best Commanding Officer that I Ever Served Under. He was a True Gator Sailor that Cared for his Sailors. R.I.P

Morton Kenyon

March 20, 2025

Jim was a true gentleman with a great sense of humor. His gator fries, El Paso food promotions and staged "kidnapping" of another´s ships gator mascot made for an enjoyable deployment. He will be sorely missed by the gator community.
Mort Kenyon
Capt, USN, Ret
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Gordon Holder

March 20, 2025

Jim was truly a great gentleman, and professional "gator". My condolences to the family,
Gordon Holder
VADM, USN (Ret)

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