James Ernest Van Patten

James Ernest Van Patten obituary, Princeton, NJ

James Ernest Van Patten

James Van Patten Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by The Mather-Hodge Funeral Home on Jun. 5, 2025.

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James Ernest Van Patten, 85, of Princeton, NJ, passed away on Sunday, June 1, 2025.
James was a devoted husband to Gillian Sterling, who passed away in 2020, and a loving father, stepfather, grandfather, and mentor to many. Though he was a celebrated painter and influential art educator - known for his hyperrealist work represented by Ivan Karp at OK Harris Gallery in New York and Plus One Gallery in London - those who knew James best will remember him for something far more enduring: the way he showed up for others.
With over 42 years of sobriety, James transformed his life from the inside out. Through his decades in recovery, he became a quiet giant in the AA community - not by preaching or advising, but by listening deeply, sharing openly, and walking beside countless others through their darkest hours. In Princeton, some jokingly called him the "unofficial mayor" because of the sheer number of lives he touched through love, honesty, and presence.
His greatest masterpiece wasn't painted - it was the way he learned to love, fully and without reservation. He wasn't just a brilliant artist, he was a deeply human, heart-centered man who touched others well beyond canvas and classroom.
James is survived by his sons David and Michael, David's wife Laurette and their children, Jacquie and Tate; Michael's wife Christina and their children Ismael and Elisa; and his stepson Daniel Williams and Daniel's wife Michelle Steffens and their nephew William Beavin.
A celebration of his life will be held in the All Saints Church meeting room this Saturday, June 7, from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. All are welcome.
All Saints' Episcopal Church, 16 All Saints Rd, Princeton, NJ https://www.allsaintsprinceton.org https://www.jamesvanpatten.com

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