Janet Shafner

Janet Shafner

Janet Shafner Obituary

Published by Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home - New London on Aug. 2, 2011.
Janet Shafner New London — Janet Shafner, an artist and teacher in southeastern Connecticut, died of lung cancer on Tuesday, Aug. 2, 2011. She was born in New York City on Aug. 30, 1931, the daughter of Herman Schreier and Sonia (Glantz) Schreier. She attended New York public schools and was valedictorian of her class at the High School of Music and Art. She received a bachelor of arts degree in art history from Barnard College and a master of arts degree in studio art from Connecticut College. She began painting as a child at the Art Students League in New York City. As a teenager she was the youngest student admitted to the Skowhegan School of Painting and Sculpture in Skowhegan, Maine. She developed her craft over many years and was a master painter and teacher. Throughout the 1950s, 1960s, and 1970s, she honed her unique vision in still life, figures, and landscape painting. In the 1980s she discovered fascinating connections between biblical and contemporary occurrances, and began a long series of large, multipanel paintings to visually express those connections. In 2003, 36 of these paintings were shown at the Lyman Allen Art Museum in New London, and a book showing all of them was published. For 30 years she taught adult painting at the Lyman Allen Art Museum, and many of her students have become prominent painters. While working at the museum, she designed and developed a ten part series of programs for developing artists and curated three major shows. She had a brilliant mind, was a seeker of truth, and had little patience for pretense. She was not an idealogue. She saw what was of value in different movements and straddled the worlds of art, religion, family, and women's rights. She came from a non-religious background. After marriage, she settled in New London in 1955. As her family was growing, she became aware of her Jewish heritage, and her inquiring mind began looking at the moral issues presented in the Bible. She thought about Creation, about Adam and Eve and their two sons, but where were the daughters? After much biblical research, she did a number of paintings to make the women known. She did not wear feminism on her sleeve, but insisted that women's rights and dignity should not be denied. From her, our local Jewish community learned that the secular and religious worlds can, and ought to be, harmonized. Though she was a multi-tasking working mother, she made time for all of her family. Her children and grandchildren came to her for advice, which was always sage. Besides providing for their religious education, she made them aware of the larger moral issues they faced. Despite the challenges of raising children in the 1950s when there were few instruction books on the subject, her gut feeling of what was right, guided her children to become good, caring, and accomplished people. Breaking into the New York art scene was difficult for Janet, especially because her work is figurative and not abstract or merely conceptual. Even so, over the years she was featured in many solo and group art shows. Many of her paintings are in the permanent collections of museums, and many were purchased by individuals and corporations. Just before her death, to her great pleasure, a show of ten of her biblically-themed paintings and five recent drawings was curated and will be shown in New York at the HUC Museum in September. She was a member of the Jewish Art Salon, an elected member of the Connecticut Academy of Fine Arts, a member of Congregation Ahavath Chesed Synagogue in New London and the Boca Raton Synagogue in Boca Raton, Fla., a member of Hadassah, the Lyman Allen Art Museum of New London, the Slater Museum in Norwich, and the Mystic Art Association. She is survived by Sholom Shafner, her husband of 59 years; four sons, Samuel M. Shafner and his wife, Rosalyn, of Sharon, Mass., David N. Shafner and his wife, Ellen, of Ramat Bet Shemesh, Israel, Jonathan L. Shafner and his wife, Dana, of North Bethesda, Md., Rabbi Hyim G. Shafner and his wife, Sara, of St. Louis, Mo.; her sister, Esther Chachkes and her husband, Israel, of Teaneck, N.J.; six grandsons, six granddaughters, and six great-granddaughters. A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. on Wednesday, Aug. 3, 2011, at Congregation Ahavath Chesed Synagogue, 590 Montauk Ave., New London. Burial will follow in the Ahavath Chesed Cemetery, Boston Post Road, Waterford. The Memorial Week (shiva) will be at her late home, 40 Glenwood Place, New London. Visits to the mourners may be made Thursday afternoon and evening, Friday afternoon, Sunday afternoon and evening, and Monday afternoon only. Suggestions for donations in her memory are Congregation Ahavath Chesed in New London or a charity of the donor's choice. The Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home is assisting the family. Please visit www.neilanfuneralhome.com for directions or to sign the family's online guest book.

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August 26, 2025

I took a night art class for the public at Connecticut College in the late 1970's with Ms. Shafner. She was a wonderful instructor, encouraging and joyful. She always found something to appreciate about each student, no matter how "marginally" gifted we might have been. I've thought of her many times over the decades. I happened to search her name today and was so sad to learn she had died. My note here may seem meaningless, but I wanted to share that, besides her family and friends, she made an impact on the lives of others, so she lives on in all of us.

August 11, 2011

Shalom,
Please accept our deepest sympathy. Though we only met you and Janet a few times we felt much closer because of Ellen and David, and Ben and Marilyn. She was a great Lady, a real Mench.

Sincerely, Abe and Doris Epstein

August 8, 2011

When I was first married I took art classes from Janet at Ct. College. She was such a wonderful spirit and inspiration. In the following years whenever I saw her I felt the great warmth of her presence which I will surely miss. My condolences to her family and friends. Lana Orphanides

August 6, 2011

To Sholom and family we wish to express our condolences on this
great loss of a remarkable wife, mother and woman who touched the lives of so many of our community.
Shirley and Mendy Gottesdiener

Carole and Roy Fuchs

August 5, 2011

To Sholom and the entire Shafner Family. Our heartfelt sympathy to all of you on your great loss. Janet was an exceptional person and loved by all who knew her in her many roles, professionally, socially, and as a leader in the New London Jewish community. May the entire family be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. May you have only simchas in the future.

August 5, 2011

Dear Sholom,
Our friendship has spanned more than fifty years. It seems like yesterday that we all started our first chavera with Rabbi Feder and what wonderful times they were. Janet's family was always her first priority. She was a wonderful wife, mother and friend. We will all miss Janet in so many different ways. Please know that our hearts are with the entire Shafner family at this very sad time .
Mildred and Irwin Mendelson - Delray Beach, Florida

August 4, 2011

On behalf of the Connecticut Academy of Fine Arts, I wish to express the deep sympathy felt by fellow members who knew Janet personally and through her highly respected art. The art world, and the Connecticut Academy of Fine Arts, especially, will miss her contributions.

Leonard Hellerman, Pres.

Beth Bernstein

August 4, 2011

To the Shafner family:
I was very sad to read about Janet's passing. It is so very hard to have a parent pass especially one so wonderful. My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone. Shul will not seem the same come the High Holdays.

August 4, 2011

We are sorry to hear of you loss...Janet will be missed by all.
Betty and Ralph Levitt Falmouth, Ma.

Steve Basson

August 3, 2011

Shafner Family,
I was very sorry to read of your mothers passing. I remember her from many decades ago and she always seemed like a gem. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time

NANCY and GARY BENSON

August 3, 2011

It was an honor and a pleasure to have known Janet z'l. She was a vibrant, warm, talented lovely lady. We always looked forward to her St. Louis visits. Our lives are richer for having known her. May her memory be a blessing to anyone privileged enough to have known her, and may Sholom and our beloved Rabbi Hyim and the whole Shafner family be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
B'Shalom,
Nancy and Gary Benson

August 3, 2011

Jonathan,
My condolences to you and your family. Cherish all the memories that your mother left you. May they comfort you in the days to come.

Sincerely,
Deborah Lipsey
GEICO

August 3, 2011

Our heartfelt condolences to Sholom and the whole family on the loss of their wonderfully warm, intelligent and vibrant Janet. May her memory comfort them in the difficult days ahead.
Cousins Debbie and Dick Turner & family

Mimi Perl

August 3, 2011

Ethel, Ed and I extend our condolences to the Shafner family on their loss of Janet. She was an amazing artist and a remarkable human being. May her memory be for a blessing.

August 3, 2011

Janet Shafner was a true Eshet Chayil, Woman of Valor.
Rabbi Aaron Rosenberg

Ken Abrahms

August 3, 2011

My thaughts are with you, she was a great person, she will live for ever
in my mind.

ROBRTA & SAMMY BERNSTEIN

August 3, 2011

To Sholom and the Shafner famly: We send our deepest sympathy for your lose. we always feel the lose enven being away so long.

Leslie Silbermann

August 3, 2011

With deepest sympathy to Jon and the entire Shafner family. May the memories of Janet Shafner be a blessing.

Leslie Crotty

August 3, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss. Such an incredible woman your Aunt Janet was. Love to Sarena & Justin and the entire Shafner family.

Estela Turlik

August 3, 2011

I am sorry for you loss.
With my deepest sympathy to Jon and the Shafner family
Estela Turlik

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