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Michael Busike
March 20, 2025
Mathy Machine was the 1st machine show I worked it , Jay was a great guy .
SUE
March 7, 2025
My Precious Violet, I am so very sorry for what you´re going through. I know you gave Jay such happiness, and such a wonderful life. May God and your family bring you comfort. Please know how much I love you. I am sending you my very best hug, filled with all the love your heart can hold.
Helen Boise-Graham
March 7, 2025
Condolences Violett I know how hard this is and how much you will miss Jay
Helen & Paul Boise-Graham
Larry Holtzen
March 7, 2025
Violet,
I am so sorry to hear of this .
I never met Jay but followed you guys on many of your worldwide journeys and you always seemed so great together. My heart goes out you and offer my sincere condolences. Stay well.
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C.J. Dennett (and Bill & Robby)
March 5, 2025
It's hard to find the words to say goodbye to someone who was so awesome. My life was better for knowing Jay. He will be missed and fondly remembered by our family for his kind heart, generous nature, and fun-loving attitude. He was a wonderful neighbor and friend.
Martha Dufresne
February 27, 2025
To Violet,
Thinking of you at this time. The few times I met Jay when you were in the Boston area, I remember him as such a nice guy who was clearly in love with you. I also enjoyed the pictures you posted of your travels together. Love. Martha
Peggy & Brad Hanne
February 26, 2025
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We had so much fun with all our adventures together. We will love you and miss you always. Love you Violet.
Howard Paul Kruger
February 26, 2025
To Violet
I am very sorry for your loss. Jay was an amazing person and husband. I know that your support system is strong, but if you need anything please do not hesitate to reach out to Leslie or myself.
All of our Love Howard and Leslie Kruger
Sandy Gardner
February 26, 2025
Vi, I was very surprised to see Jay's passing. All the travel plans. Jim and I bought a house situated between our former small places. 11331 Palmer Road, Concord Twp OH 44077. cell 440-5396820. Love and support to you and family. Cousin Sandy
Paul Carpenter
February 26, 2025
I had the pleasure of working for and later with Jay for 37 years. He was a boss, a mentor and a friend. I will miss him, but I will always remember him, as he had a big impact in my life. Rest in peace Jay, as you were loved by many!
Terri Milnick
February 25, 2025
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you and your family. Jay will be deeply missed.
Chrissy McCray
February 25, 2025
A great man has left this earth but will forever be in our hearts. Great memories will live on.
Robert Bassett
February 25, 2025
Violet
So sorry for your loss of your soulmate .
My sisters talked about his being a wonderful guy.
While the loss is terrible, have always been happy to know you two had such a wonderful relationship.
Love and Prayers
Bob Bassett
Kris Gunst
February 25, 2025
A light has gone out in the Universe. I am honored to have known him. Peace and love to you and your family.
DANA ARCE
February 25, 2025
Heartfelt condolences to Violet and family. Jay was a great guy and will be missed. Love, Dana and Anthony
Jim Adams
February 25, 2025
Our heart-felt condolences to Violet and family. So sorry for your loss! Jim and Diane Adams.
Maz Maisuria-Clark
February 25, 2025
It was an absolute pleasure to have met you through our passion of travel, adventure & friendship. We promise to provide joy to your beloved wife Violet whenever our paths cross. Thank you for treating us with kindness over the years
Dean Kaelen
February 25, 2025
The support you always showed me was the quiet kind. That kind that didn't need to be loud. It felt like an "of course" rather than just an "okay". You'll never know how deeply I treasured visiting and watching T.V. and sleeping in the photo room and discovering what a sand blaster was. You shared your love openly and honestly in how you showed me the workshop, the birds outside, the cool gadgets you had, and the best places Indy liked to be pet since she miraculously seemed to enjoy my presence. Your house was warm to me. Your house was rest. My heart is heavy with your loss, but I carry it gladly. It means you mattered to me. I'll carry you with me every time I fix what's broken or build with my own two hands. My love to tinker came from you, and I will let everyone who will listen know it. Love you dearly, Uncle Jay. -Dean
Lacey Lori
February 25, 2025
May you rest now in peace now Uncle Jay. Thank you for always loving our aunt and treating us like part of the family too. And to you Aunt Vi what a light you are, Jay loved you very much, as do we all.
~ Love Lacey
Mary Bassett
February 25, 2025
So sorry Violet and family. He was a great guy!! Love you
Violet Bassett Mathy
February 25, 2025
I love you more than anything.
Violet Baassett Mathy
February 25, 2025
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