Jeffrey Paul Abney

Jeffrey Paul Abney obituary

Jeffrey Paul Abney

Jeffrey Abney Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Day Funeral Service - Gahanna on Aug. 4, 2025.

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Jeffrey "Jeff" Abney passed away peacefully at home in Pickerington, Ohio, on Saturday, July 26, 2025, at the age of 39. Jeff was born on February 11, 1986, and grew up in Rio Rancho, New Mexico. He spent the past decade living in Ohio. Jeff was a beloved son, brother, and uncle. He is survived by his mother, Peggy Hill Abney; his brother, Michael (Doreen); his sister, Caitlyn (Brandon); and his nephews, Christopher, Caydon, and Alexander. He was preceded in death by his father, James "Bob" Abney, and his biological mother, Sally Sipple. Jeff had an extraordinary heart for animals, especially dogs. It was not uncommon for him to come home with a "rescue" in need of love. His faithful black lab, Rinker, surely greeted him in heaven. He cherished his career as a flight attendant, the friends he met along the way, and the places he traveled to. For over 25 years, he was a valued member of three different balloon crews in Albuquerque: Mi Casa Shoe Casa, Last Dance, and the lovely Lady Jester. He was always up for an adventure with less-than-ideal landings. To know Jeff was to love him. He had the biggest heart, a great sense of humor, and a gift for making others feel special. He will be deeply missed by his family, countless friends, and all who had the blessing of knowing him. In Lieu of flowers please consider a donation to an animal rescue or shelter in Jeffs honor. A celebration of life will be planned for a later date. Day Funeral Service is honored to serve the family of Jeffrey Abney.

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August 6, 2025

David Lloyd posted to the memorial.

August 5, 2025

Caitlyn Torrez posted to the memorial.

August 4, 2025

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David Lloyd

August 6, 2025

I am heartbroken to hear about Jeff´s passing. Somehow, I can already hear him telling us to stop moping and go do something fun instead. Maybe a hot air balloon ride, with a dog in our lap and the wind in our face.

Jeff had a way of turning ordinary days into adventures. Whether it was chasing sunrises from the basket of Lady Jester or making an instant best friend out of a rescued Labrador Retriever named Rinker. He embraced life with joy and a wide open heart.

He also had that signature smile. It was bright, easy, and absolutely contagious. Honestly, I don´t think I ever saw him frown, except maybe when someone said they didn´t like dogs.

There´s a quote from a certain doctor, one Jeff definitely approved of, that I keep coming back to: "Don´t cry because it´s over. Smile because it happened." (Dr. Seuss.)

There are, and will be, many tears shed for the loss of Jeff. But there should be a million more smiles when we remember all the great experiences we shared with him. That quote feels like something Jeff would´ve said himself, with a wink, and maybe a joke about how we´d better be smiling or else he´d come back to haunt us, with a puppy army, no less.

It´s hard not to miss someone who brought so much light and laughter. But I take comfort in knowing that joy leaves a lasting imprint. Every time we smile at a goofy dog, feel the lift of a balloon overhead, or catch ourselves grinning for no reason, we´ll think of Jeff.

I really want to cry when I think of Jeff´s passing but, I sure as hell am going to smile for having the opportunity to know him.

Sending you love, strength, and at least one good reason to smile today.

Rest now, you're home, Jeff.,

Dave

Caitlyn Torrez

August 5, 2025

I will miss you & the conversations we would have. Love you my brother

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