Jeffrey Lawrence "Jeff" McPhee

Jeffrey Lawrence "Jeff" McPhee obituary, Wethersfield, CT

Jeffrey Lawrence "Jeff" McPhee

Jeffrey McPhee Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Farley-Sullivan Funeral Home - Wethersfield on Mar. 17, 2024.

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Jeffrey L. McPhee, 63, of Wethersfield passed away peacefully March 13, 2024 at Saint Francis Hospital surrounded by close family and friends. Jeffrey was born on May 7, 1960, the son of the late Chester and Jane McPhee of Newington, CT. He married his high school sweetheart, Joanne, who he has known since they were in elementary school. They moved to Wethersfield and had two children and built their lives there together. Jeff was a hard working man who was an accountant for many years and then worked for 28 years at UPS and for many years in the Wethersfield Public Schools. He was a volunteer fireman for Co.1 in Wethersfield from 1999 until 2005. He was an avid golfer and member of Wethersfield Country Club where he worked part time after retirement. Jeff also loved people and having a good time, he was always there to help when needed. As a parent and sports lover, he was always the coach of the soccer or basketball team and ready to go on the tournament trips. He was a loyal fan of the Boston Red Sox, St. Louis Rams and Ohio State Buckeyes. Of all the things he had done in his life, the thing he loved most was being a Grampa to his granddaughters. Jeff will be deeply missed by his family and friends, but his memory will live on in the stories they will share.
Jeff was predeceased by his parents, Chester and Jane McPhee as well as his brother Douglas McPhee. He leaves behind his wife of 42 years, Joanne McPhee of Wethersfield. He also leaves behind his son Jeremy McPhee of Rocky Hill and daughter Jennifer and her husband Jordan Coleman of Glastonbury with his granddaughters Juliette and Johanna. He cherished his family and friends dearly and especially his late mother in law Helen Niemczyk.
The family would like to thank the staff at St. Francis Hospital and the office of Congestive Heart Failure for their wonderful care and support. The memorial service will be held Sunday, March 24, 2024 from 10 a.m. - 12 p.m. at Farley Sullivan Funeral Home, 34 Beaver Road, Wethersfield, CT 06109. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38101.

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Bill lander

December 22, 2024

Very sorry to hear of Jeff´s passing. I worked with him at Nationwide. Has always been one of the best people I´ve ever known. Very sad.

Audrey Saharek

March 18, 2024

So many fun times and memories with Jeff at Highcrest, from my teaching years, to the infamous ghost trail at the fall festivals, to Jeff letting me in late to do schoolwork and then later PTO work. He was awesome! Not to mention the special delivery pastries on Easter by Jeff & Jeremy even when Jeff was not feeling well!!!! My healing prayers are sent to all the J's........Joanne, Jeremy, Jennifer, Juliette & Johanna....Love Aud & family & Marguerite Heinimann

Nancy Byrne

March 17, 2024

I am so sorry for your loss. I would have gone to the memorial service, but I found out about service too late on Sunday. He was very special, kind and helpful to me and all the teachers at Highcrest and the middle school. We shared many stories about our kids, school, Newington, his mom and dad, and all different topics. I remember many years ago when my room at school was going to be painted, and I took all the things off the walls. He told me at the end of summer, my room would have to wait until the following year. Jeff painted it on his free time, a Saturday. May he rest in peace.
Love,
Nancy Byrne

CONNIE HUTTER

March 17, 2024

Joanne, we are so sorry for your loss. We lost my husband two years ago and we are still trying to deal with his absence from our lives. Time will not heal the wound you feel now, in fact, your memories will hurt because they are wonderful and his not being here to share them hurts the most.
Joanne, may you and your family find solace in one another and may God bless you with peace of mind and heart.

fondly,
The Hutter family

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