Jeffrey H. Starr

Jeffrey H. Starr obituary, Weymouth, MA

Jeffrey H. Starr

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Jeffrey Starr Obituary

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Jeffrey H. Star, retired Deputy Chief of the Quincy Fire Department, passed away suddenly on September 13, 2025. A proud firefighter, devoted husband, loving father and loyal friend

Born and raised in Quincy, Jeff graduated from Quincy High School, Class of 1967. Shortly after graduation, he answered a higher calling and enlisted in the United States Marine Corps and served in the Vietnam War. Following his military service, Jeff returned home to begin what would become a distinguished career in the Quincy Fire Department, joining in 1977.

Over the next 37 years, Jeff rose through the ranks with quiet strength and unshakable integrity, serving as Lieutenant, then Captain, and ultimately retiring as Deputy Chief in 2014. He was stationed at Engine 4, Engine 5, and spent most of his career at Headquarters, where he earned the respect and admiration of colleagues and community alike. A lifelong learner, Jeff earned a bachelor’s degree in Fire Science from Salem State College, further deepening his commitment to public safety and leadership.

Jeff was a proud firefighter, wise, humble, fiercely competent, and endlessly reliable. He could fix anything, listen to anyone, and was always ready with calm advice or a helping hand. He was known for his intelligence, craftsmanship, and deep dedication to those he cared about.

Outside of his career, Jeff lived a rich and active life. He was an avid cyclist, taking part in events like the Maine Lighthouse Ride, and could often be found riding the Eastern Trail or the South Shore Rail Trail Network. He found peace in his garden, joy in carpentry, and adventure in travel. After retirement, he and his beloved wife spent cherished time exploring Europe and relaxing at their cottage in Maine.

Above all, Jeff was a devoted husband and father, the kind of man who led by example and loved unconditionally. He was a loyal friend, a family man, and a steady presence to all who knew him.

Beloved husband of 44 years to Paula Starr (Kostachuk). Cherished Father to Jeffrey P. Starr  Brother to Jacquelyn Higgins, Michael Starr and the late Herbert Starr. Brother-in-law to Debra Hanley and Lynne Kostachuk. Jeffrey leaves behind many nieces, nephews and his grandog Luna. He is predeceased in life by his parents Herbert Starr and Mildred " Millie" (Rand) Starr.

Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to greet the family during the visiting hours on Tuesday 9/23/2025 from 4-7 PM in the McDonald Keohane Funeral Home SOUTH WEYMOUTH at 809 Main Street (Rte 18 opp. So. Shore Hospital). Funeral service will be celebrated on Wednesday 9/24/2025 at 10 AM in McDonald Keohane Funeral Home, SOUTH WEYMOUTH at 809 Main St. Burial in Blue Hill Cemetery, Braintree.

In Lieu of flowers donations may be made in memory of Jeffrey to the Quincy Animal Shelter or Maine's Eastern Trail.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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Sep

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Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

809 Main Street South, Weymouth, MA 02190

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Sep

24

Celebration of Life

10:00 a.m.

809 Main Street South, Weymouth, MA 02190

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Sep

24

Burial

11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Blue Hill Cemetery

700 West Street, Braintree, MA 02184

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