Jill McQuay

Jill McQuay obituary, Huntersville, NC

Jill McQuay

Jill McQuay Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by James Funeral Home on Feb. 15, 2025.

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Jill Dawn McQuay, 50, born in Mecklenburg County on March 11, 1974. She passed on Saturday, February 15, 2025, at the Levine & Dickson Hospice House in Huntersville, NC from Cholangiocarcinoma (bile duct cancer).
Jill was a lifelong resident of Mecklenburg County. She went to Long Creek Elementary School, Alexander Jr. High School and North Mecklenburg High School. She also attended Central Piedmont Community College. She had a special place in her heart for Long Creek and was in one of the last classes in the original 2 story school building before it was torn down. She still had a brick from that building.
Jill was known for her selfless nature and deep love for those closest to her, including family, friends, colleagues and all the neighborhood animals. Her main concern while in the hospital was the care of her pets, a dog and 3 ducks. Through various jobs, she met people with whom she remained in close contact, most recently working at Jackson Day School.
Music was central in her life, having grown up surrounded by it. Whether rock, country, shag, alternative or who knows what, Jill was playing music any time she had the opportunity. Dancing was frequent and enjoyable for her; it just came naturally.
Jill loved witty conversation, kind deeds by others, pictures of river sunsets, music festivals, clothes, movie references, kayaking, and spending time with friends and family. She was overly compassionate and tolerant of others that were quirky or somewhat "different".
Jill is survived by her parents, Johnny and Jane; her sister, Jamie Brooks (Jason) of Troy, NC; nephews, Jacob and Jordon Brooks; and longtime boyfriend, Marty Sharpe, who says, "a light that burns twice as bright lasts half as long and she was the brightest light in my life for a long time".
A Celebration of Life will be held at Mission Farm (2702 Devine Rd, Iron Station) on Sunday, March 2nd at 2:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Richardson Rescue (York, SC), Carolina Waterfowl Rescue (Indian Trail, NC), The Humane Society, or to the charity of your choice.
James Funeral Home, of Huntersville, is serving the family and obituary lovingly written by the family.

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Dayna Ingram Winslow

February 24, 2025

Johnny & Jane,

I am so sorry to hear about Jill´s death. Please know my thoughts & prayers are with you.

Love - Dayna

Jay Ratliff

February 21, 2025

Jane and Johnny,
I am so sorry to hear about Jill´s passing. Sherry told me she saw a post from Jerry of a pretty girl named Jill that had passed. I was shocked. I can´t remember the last time I saw Jill. From the obituary it sounds like she was a wonderful person. You were blessed. I can just imagine what you went thru with the cancer. I want you to know we will be asking God to help you get thru this. Jay and Sherry Ratliff

Barbara Barr

February 19, 2025

Jane & Johnny, I'm so saddened to hear of Jill's passing. Jill was always sweet, friendly, kind and a beautiful soul. So many memories of her bartending at Thoroughbreds. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Michelle lemmond

February 18, 2025

Jill us my cousin and I can remember listening to the record of the movie "Grease" and us including Jamie dancing around and singing our hearts out! Very fond memories of our graduation beach trip and always making everyone laugh! Rest in peace and no more suffering we love you all
Michelle Lemmond & family

Kelly Bruce

February 16, 2025

Jill was a kind and loving person. She loved her family and spoke of them often. Jill especially loved animals and was a fabulous pet mom. She had taken a photo of her dog Rolo that I think shows how people and pets felt in her presence, which I've attached. I will truly miss her kind spirit. Much love Kelly Bruce

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