John Dabney

John Dabney

John Dabney Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by McDonald and Son Funeral Home and Crematory - Cumming on Jan. 20, 2026.
John Dabney was born in Atlanta on December 9th, 1948. He attended Westminster Schools, was a member of First Presbyterian Church in Atlanta and Boy Scout Troop 60 where he earned his Eagle Scout rank. He attended the University of North Carolina and was drafted for the Vietnam War right before his Senior year. He joined the Army Reserves where he became a Medic.After a year of training, he was able to return to UNC fulfilling his monthly duties near there until he graduated. John went on to Law School at the University of Georgia then practiced Law for 50 years, first with Johnson and Ward Law Firm then privately in Cumming, GA.

He married Christiane Hirschman Weakly on September 23, 1992. They lived on Lake Lanier for many years, then built a house in Venice Florida where John retired after Chris's death in 2017. John later returned to the Gainesville area.

John liked to stay active throughout his life in sports, church, fraternity, clubs, civic groups, and ham radio. John loved adventure. He had his pilot license, did deep sea scuba diving, photography, and anything outdoors from hiking, camping,boating and fishing to golf, motorcycles and anything with guns. On the quieter side he enjoyed reading, history, playing guitar, building and repairing things. He strove to be the best at everything he did.

He is survived by his sister, Ann Blane and husband Bill, his nieces Casey and Grace, nephews Peter, David, and Christopher and his first cousins Lou Lyon, Beth Wood, and Margo Truslow.

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January 28, 2026

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January 22, 2026

John & Beth Kindt posted to the memorial.

January 20, 2026

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Mary Helen Akers Abbott

January 28, 2026

John went to the same church l was raised in.We also attended the Westminster Schools together ; though we were just friends in those years.I lost tough with his active light. I am very sorry to hear of his death.He was a very smart nice and kind person.

John & Beth Kindt

January 22, 2026

The world will miss the blessing that is John Dabney, a fine Christian man who believed and practiced a faith-based walk with The LORD. We were privileged to be John's friends for 53 years and knew him in ways perhaps not apparent to others.

John coupled his balanced nature with circumspection to project the "Old School" qualities of a gentleman.

As an attorney, John became affectionately known as "The Law Man," maintaining the almost impossible rating of 5/5. He always had a positive outlook framed by his dedication to legal ethics and Christian morals. In a Christian context, John was a Renaissance Man exercising multiple talents too numerous to detail.

While humble, John was always impressive, as from his youth, he exemplified his Eagle Scout characteristics of being trustworthy, loyal, helpful, and friendly. Totally reliable in difficult situations, John was also courteous, kind, obedient, and cheerful. With these talents, John could and did lighten problematic circumstances via an appropriate sense of humor that brought people to laughter. John modeled the characteristics of being thrifty, brave, clean, and reverent. For better or for worse, he always tried to walk the walk.

As The LORD promises: "I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am." John 14:3.

Remembering John's days as a pilot, we wish him Godspeed as he now soars within the limitless heavens with his LORD JESUS.

John & Beth Kindt

L.W. McDonald and Son Funeral Home

January 20, 2026

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