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Joseph Arpad Obituary

WADSWORTH -- Dr. Joseph John Arpad of Wadsworth, Ohio, died Saturday, December 27, 2025. He was 88. He is survived by his sons Al Arpad (Nicole Armstrong) of Phoenix, Arizona and Monty Arpad of Mesa, Arizona.

Joe was born on March 9, 1937 to John and Pauline Arpad. The family moved to Wadsworth when Joe was very young. They did not have much money, and in the winter his mother would send him to school with a baked potato for lunch because it would keep his hands warm on the long walk.

Joe worked multiple jobs in Wadsworth all through school, but he was also a scholar and an athlete from a young age. Later in life when he drove by Durling Park on his way to his house on Woodland Avenue, he would reminisce about being "Wadsworth's Lou Boudreau" as player-manager of his grade-school baseball team.

Joe graduated from Wadsworth High School in 1955, and was accepted to UCLA on a scholarship. He supported himself through college, taking time off to work various jobs including "pulling crystals" in an early semiconductor lab for Hughes Aircraft. He graduated from UCLA in 1962.

Joe wanted to teach in California, but his professors told him he would need to get a graduate degree from an eastern school. He earned an MA from the prestigious University of Iowa writers program in 1964, and a PhD from Duke University in 1968. Joe returned to UCLA to teach English for several years in the 1960s and 70s.

Joe met Susan Tamke while he was teaching as a visiting professor at Bowling Green State University in 1976. They married and Joe moved to Bowling Green, where Joe taught, learned to be a pilot, and wrote and produced several television documentaries for Ohio Public Television including The Story of the Great Black Swamp.

Joe and Susan moved to Fresno, California in 1985. They spent two years teaching as Fulbright Scholars in Hungary shortly after Eastern Europe opened up to the West, and Joe spent an additional two years as a Fulbright Scholar in Latvia in the mid-90s. Joe was inducted into the Wadsworth Alumni Hall of fame in 1999. He taught at three universities in the United States and seven universities overseas. He published five books, twenty articles, and produced or consulted on 19 television documentaries, receiving numerous awards.

After Susan retired from Fresno State University, they bought one of the old Young family properties on Woodland Avenue and moved back to Joe's hometown of Wadsworth in 2004. Joe and Susan were both active in the community until Susan passed away in 2014. Joe was devastated by her death but he continued volunteering until recently, especially with The Salvation Army.

Visitation will be held on Thursday, January 1, 2026, at Auble-Hilliard-Rospert Funeral Home, 174 North Lyman Street, Wadsworth, Ohio 44281 from 2:00 pm to 4:00 pm.

A memorial service at a later date to be announced in early 2026.

Memorial contributions in Joe's name may be made The Salvation Army 527 College Street, Wadsworth, OH 44281 salvationarmyusa.org

Auble Hilliard-Rospert Funeral Home in Wadsworth is handling the arrangements. Online registry and expressions of condolence may be made at www.aublefuneralhomes.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Bowling Green Sentinel Tribune from Dec. 31, 2025 to Jan. 1, 2026.

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Ildiko

February 10, 2026

Joe was a visiting professor at my university in Hungary in the early 1990s, teaching American culture and civilization for two years. He and his wife invited us over very often, creating a very heart-warming atmosphere, where we could relate to them and each other at a deeper level, and explore together many interesting topics in an informal setting. They were so generous to invite me to Fresno for my winter break later, while I was on a scholarship in the US, taking me to many places and even back to New York by car, to show me the country. Our regular correspondence lasted until the untimely passing of Susie. I was very saddened to read the obituary on Joe's Fb page recently, he and Susie left a permanent impression on my life. May they rest in peace, may their memory be blessed. Ildiko from Hungary

Dianna Borsi O'Brien

January 7, 2026

I am so sorry to hear that Joe died. I met him in 1984 when I started studying at Bowling Green State University as an older "nontraditional" student with his wife Susan Arpad. The first time I met Joe he offered to move a heavy typewriter for me and I said I could do it myself, women are strong and he teased me about that for the rest of the time I knew him. He called me Borsi, my originial surname, and he always made me feel truly seen and acknowledged. He and his wife made a last impression on me and I often thought of the two of them. In 2020 I was working on a book about Columbia, Missouri's historic movie theaters and I sent him a draft of the first two chapters. In true Joe fashion, he wrote back and said it was boring, that there was nothing in there about why the people did the things they did. That changed the course of the book and I researched and wrote until I felt like I truly understood the men in the theater business in Columbia, Missouri. The book was published in 2022 and in large part its quality is thanks to Joe. But it was his personality, kindness and openness that were the reasons I always kept in touch with him. I am so grateful that I got to spend time with him and Susan, and they both changed my life in the best ways possible. Thank you Joe and Susan.

Marilyn Gordon

January 6, 2026

Joe and I had been friends since grade school. I´m so sorry to hear he has passed.

Hilliard-Rospert Funeral Home Inc.

December 31, 2025

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