Kenneth McIlwaine

Kenneth McIlwaine obituary

Kenneth McIlwaine

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Kenneth McIlwaine Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, Inc. on Sep. 30, 2025.

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Kenneth McIlwaine, 84, of Leonardo, NJ, passed away on September 29, 2025 in Red Bank, NJ. He was born in Englewood, NJ and lived in Leonardo with his family. Kenneth worked as a Film Editor and Safety Supervisor in the trucking industry before retiring.

Surviving are his wife Angela McIlwaine; daughter, Sandra; and sons, Kenneth and Daniel McIlwaine.

Kenneth was preceded in death by his parents George McIlwaine and Letitia Fletcher; brother, George Martin; and sister, Sandra Lechot.

Visitation will be held on Wednesday, October 1, 2025 from 4pm - 7pm at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, 115 Tindall Road, Middletown.

A Funeral Service will be offered on Thursday, October 2, 2025 at 11am at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, 115 Tindall Road, Middletown.

In lieu of flowers please consider a contribution in Kenneth's name to American Diabetes Association.

Arrangements are under the direction of John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, Middletown.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, Inc.

115 Tindall Road, Middletown, NJ 07748

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Upcoming Events

Oct

1

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Funeral Home Chapel

115 Tindall Rd., Middletown, NJ 07748

Send Flowers

Oct

2

Service

11:00 a.m.

Funeral Home Chapel

115 Tindall Rd., Middletown, NJ 07748

Send Flowers

Only 9 hours left for delivery to next service.