Laura M. Chaffer

Laura M. Chaffer obituary, Honeoye Falls, NY

Laura M. Chaffer

Laura Chaffer Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Merton H Kays Funeral Home, Inc. on Oct. 2, 2024.

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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Laura McCarthy Chaffer on September 18, 2024 at the age of 65. Laura was born on March 16, 1959 in Rochester, New York. She remained in the Rochester area (Honeoye Falls) all her life.
Laura is survived by her husband, partner and friend, John Chaffer; her sons, John (Jack) and James (Jim) Chaffer who were the pride and joy of her life, and her dogs, Lacy and Ollie, who were the lucky recipients of Laura's endless love and care. Laura is predeceased by father, John (Jack) McCarthy and survived by her mother, Joanna (Jody) McCarthy, four sisters, Molly McCarthy, Kathy Clas, Ellen Rookey and Amy McCarthy, and many nieces, nephews, friends, and co-workers.
Laura was exceptionally smart with an unwavering work ethic. After graduating from Pittsford Mendon High School in 1977, Laura attended SUNY College at Cobbleskill followed by Monroe Community College where she received her degree in nursing. Laura worked at Strong Memorial Hospital for 36 years in numerous departments, most recently the Cardiology Department (436) the past 7 years. She was a nursing legacy with the utmost devotion to her patients and co-workers. Her colleagues considered her the matriarch of the department, always giving advice and support.
Laura was an animal lover through and through. From childhood and throughout her life, she loved and cared for dogs of all shapes, sizes and breeds, recently spending time caring for rescue dogs. As a teenager, she spent many days at High View Farms riding horses and competing in shows across the northeast.
We will miss Laura forever, especially her infectious laugh and intelligent and practical advice to life's challenges.
In lieu of flowers please consider donating in Laura's name to Lollypop Farm.
Services are to be held at Northridge Church, 2090 S. Clinton Ave Rochester, NY 14618 on October 19th at 1pm.

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Angela Diaz

November 6, 2024

When I heard today that Laura had died it brought so much sadness. I wept for my friend. As I sat in chapel praying for Laura and her family so many memories flooded in, I have wrote and erased this message many times. Reading her obituary was so true. Laura was a solid friend who would tell you the truth, give you advise and not judge. Laura was a strong advocate for her patients and fellow nurses. Working with her made me a better nurse. Laura was a strong leader and teacher.
She was a quiet hero. Never boasting of her skills, knowledge and experience. She could have but that was not in her character. She remained humble and loving. To put into perspective how many patients were loved and cared for at the bedside by Laura is remarkable. Laura was so proud of her sons and spoke of them often. She loved her family so much. After praying, I looked around the chapel and I had a laugh. See, Laura helped me through the death of both my parents. Even though I did not want or trust anyone, Laura sensed that and stayed by my side. She helped me to open up and talk to her about how I truely felt. I felt like someone had ripped my chest open and taken my heart, then put me back together. I did not understand how the world kept on spinning and I was meant to just keep going. Laura helped me trust her and share my deep, dark pain. She uplifted me and inspired me. She taught me to be strong, keep going and really helped my life in such a positive way. I laughed because I thought my mom and Laura are probably together in heaven thinking what Is that girl up to now! Laura I wish you peace and love you so much. I will forever be grateful for having you as my friend. Laura I will see you again but for now on this earth I will see you in a beautiful sun rise or a butterfly flying free. Be at peace my dear friend, I know you are in heaven where there in no future, or past only presence and it is pure bliss with no more pain. I love you and will miss you my friend. Prayers to all your family and friends. Love ya Angela

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Diane

October 3, 2024

I am friend and co-worker of John ..I am so sorry for your loving loss.My prayers and thoughts for family.Rest in peace Laura

Scott Hall

October 3, 2024

I feel fortunate to have known Laura We worked together for many years at Strong. She was decisive and so very competent. She was funny. When she was serious you knew there was a good reason. I can't imagine how her husband and kids must feel. I will think about her a lot.

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