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Lillian F. Avadanian
1925 - 2017
Lillian F. Avadanian
1925 - 2017
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BORN
1925
DIED
2017
Lillian Avadanian Obituary
A graduate of Lynn Classical High School, her career started at 17 in Lynn's Original Anthony's Hawthorne heading on her way to 30 years as the hostess at the Continental Restaurant - and then moving on up to Salisbury's famous Butch's Club Royale where lives were never the same….in a good way! Known for her famous red lipstick and banana breads, her loves were the beach, traveling, Las Vegas, Foxwoods, and visiting Ireland and Canada. However, anyone who really knew Fran, knew that besides her family, her #1 loves were the NY Yankees, Tony Bennett, and Mickey Mantle (#7), all of whom she had personal friendships with.
Fran leaves behind her beloved daughters, Francie Sudak and Claire Cavanagh and has now joined her late "Golden Boy" Michael "Abba" Avadanian. She also leaves her cherished grandchildren: Michael, Matthew, and Johnny McSharry, Megan and Casey Sudak and great-grandchildren: Lily and O'Neil Sudak. She also leaves behind her sister-in-law, Ellen and the late Bob Avadanian and family; countless devoted friends including Bob and Judy Kerton and Wendy Atwood.
The sister of the late Ruth and Roger Heaslip, Eleanor and Ed Gertaowski, Claire and Jim O'Shea, William and Marilyn Buckley, and Charles and Joan Fox and her special late friends, Barbara and Skip McDonnell and Fr. Thomas Morgan.
A Funeral Service will be held in the Cuffe-McGinn Funeral Home, 157 Maple St. LYNN on Monday, August7, 2017 at 1 pm. Burial will be held privately. Relatives and friends are invited to attend the Visiting Hours prior to the service from 11 am to 1 pm. At Fran's request, in lieu of flowers, contributions may be sent to either: A.L.S., St. Jude's Hospital, or the Salisbury Beach Betterment Assoc.
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Carmel O'Brien
August 19, 2017
Dear Abba, Francie and Claire, I am so sorry for the loss of Wing Ding...I am at a loss of words. I met her through Barb and Skip and we then had our own friendship. She was so good to my Family and Grandchildren. She was a kind and loving person....one I will miss and love forever! Keep the Faith and God Bless.
Elaine Fedas
August 13, 2017
Francie ,
I am sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She sounds like she had a wonderful life & many adventures to say the least . I know you treasured the time you had with her . Hang in there !
Sincerely,
Marilyn Mahoney
August 10, 2017
Bill and I extend our heartfelt sympathy to the three generations of the Avadanian family as they grieve the loss of their wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother.
I personally would like to thank Lillian and her husband "Abba" for being such phenomenal parents, bringing their beautiful daughter, Francie, into the world and into my life. Francie has been and continues to be a true blessing, inspiring me and countless others.
After listening to Lillian's eloquent eulogy, I now know Francie is a reflection of her mother and I also know Francie will continue to make Lillian shine, carrying on Wing Ding's legacy.
Kathy OConnor
August 7, 2017
Dear Abba, Francie and Claire, So sorry to hear about the passing of Wing Ding. What wonderful memories we all have of the great summers we shared with her at Butch's. R.I.P. Wing. You will be greatly missed.
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August 5, 2017
Wonderful person and I'm glad I had the pleasure of knowing her.
Maryann Wilson
August 5, 2017
Abba, Franci, Claire & family
Heartfelt condolences for Wing Ding's recent passing! Her life was well-lived and well-loved!! Her love and passion for her family and friends enriched many lives. So many fond memories of juke-box, bowling machine, Butch's, Oyster, Property, and valued friendships I will treasure. RIP Wing, I'll be seeing you.......
It was the best of times
lisa bell
August 4, 2017
Thank you Wing Ding for all the happy memories you brought to so many of us! Rest in Peace... no wait a minute, you will have lots to do with Mary Ellen and the rest of the crew up there!!! Love to all. So sorry Franci and Claire
August 4, 2017
So sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace. Jerry, Tina and Scott Pryor (NV)
August 3, 2017
Francine and Claire,
Your mom was a very special lady to say the least. She left a lasting impression on everyone she met and was one in a million. We have very special memories that will live on forever and Wing Ding stories will be told for decades to come.
Our thoughts are with you. Gene & Judy DeLucia
elaine salie
August 3, 2017
Wonderful one of a kind woman. Our neighborhood will miss her. Elaine and Eddie
John OBrien
August 3, 2017
Dear Claire, Francine and Abba, In 1969 during the Caggiano campaign I had the pleasure of meeting your wonderful family. I will never forget how kind and helpful Wing Ding was to me. She was a treasure. The memories that I have from Butchs will never fade. The jukebox to those stairs that your mom helped me down bring a smile to my face. Your mother was someone who never forgot where she came from. She was a very special lady. I am sorry that I will be unable to attend the service as I am away with Sandy and Ashley. When you think of Wing Ding remember the immortal words of the late Charley Chaplin... Smile
Bonnie Faith
August 3, 2017
Rest in Peace Sweet Aunt Frances. We will miss you so much-your laughter, joy, enthusiasm and affection was all embracing. The only consolation is to know that you are with Michael and all the rest of our family in Heaven.
With so much Love & Appreciation, Bonnie, Greg and Yahanna
Jeanne Shafer
August 2, 2017
Rest in Peace my old Friend Wing Ding ...We had many chats when you worked at the 4 D on North End Boulevard...You told me many stories about the Frolics...all so interesting...You got me a square coin when you went to Jamaica , many years ago and I still have it... You will be so Missed...You were a Beautiful person in side and outside....My Condolenses to Wing Ding's Family..
Cindy Foote
August 2, 2017
See you in heaven my friend
Louise Carlson
August 2, 2017
Deep Sympathy to the Avadanian Family From Louise
& the Carlson Family of No Andover
The world is a "dimmer ' place without you in it Dear Wing Ding"
Thank you for including me in your long list of friends
You were a very special Lady
& will be greatly missed
Neil MacNevin
August 2, 2017
In the Summer of 1947 as a 16 year old student and Hampton Beach dishwasher...I attended a pre marriage party at Butch's immortal Club Royale. The bride to be was Lillian. From that day on I consdered her a friend... and, it has been my good fortune to have known her and to have spoken with her hundreds of times over that all too short seventy years. We celebrate her great life, of course. But. we will also greatly miss her presence.
Carol Dullea
August 2, 2017
Claire - so very sorry for your loss! Thinking of you with sincere sympathy.
Susan Cheney
August 2, 2017
Francie, I am so sorry to read the loss of your beloved mother. Please know that you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers.
Diane Strain
August 2, 2017
My wonderful friend, Claire. You and your loved ones are in our thoughts and prayers. Your mother was so blessed to have you for a daughter, and your loving children. Our hearts ache for you. My memories of your Mom will always be happy and loving ones. With Love, Diane and Craig.
Kerry Diamond
August 1, 2017
Claire , my deepest condolences to you. Such a lucky woman to have you as a daughter. You have always been by her side since I met you and I grieve for you.
With Love & Sympathy
Kerry
Harriet Scagel
August 1, 2017
Wing, One in a Million! A good friend and mother figure. Will miss our talks.
My deepest condolences to Abba, Francie, and Claire and families. Harriet
Peggy Kelly
August 1, 2017
Wing you were always the life of the party when I vacationed in Salisbury. Claire, Terry, Diane and I always had the best times at Butch's. You were always trying to fix us up with someone! You were such a hot ticket! I know you are now surrounded by family, friends and knowing you, also Mickey Mantle and Frank Sinatra! You'll be missed!
Donnie & Gary ONEILL
August 1, 2017
Your in our thoughts
We know you will get though this.
We are all praying for your healing,
with the passing of time.
We know you miss her,
we send gentle hugs & blessings.
Just know that the pain will eventually ease.
May your beautiful memories of the past 70 years, of your wife, mom & nana comfort you and bring you smiles.
When you look to the heavens at night, notice there is another star shining bright. If you look really close - you will see, "Go Yankees" sign.
August 1, 2017
Dearest Claire and family, our deepest sympathy on the loss of your mother. She was a beautiful person inside and out and will be dearly missed. All our love and prayers at this most difficult time. The Backstrom Family
The Staff of Cuffe McGinn Funeral Home
August 1, 2017
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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