Mary Barber Obituary
Mary dedicated 21 years of her life to Rite Aid, serving as a cashier where her friendly demeanor and genuine care for others left a lasting impression on her colleagues and customers alike. Her commitment to her work was only surpassed by her devotion to her faith and family.
As a cherished member of Freedom Fellowship Church in Virginia Beach, Mary found strength and community in her faith. She was a beacon of light to those around her, always offering a helping hand and a compassionate heart.
Mary is preceded in death by her parents; James Dines and Mary Alice Yount. She leaves behind a legacy of love through her surviving family: her two daughters, Samantha Phibbs and Amanda Marshall; her son, John "J.T." Barber; her brothers, Glen Russell and Mark E. Dines as well as a grandson, Karl Marshall and a granddaughter, Iva Mae Barber. She also grew up surrounded by a large extended family. They will continue to carry her spirit in their hearts and lives.
Family and friends are invited to celebrate Mary's life and honor her memory. A visitation will be held at Altmeyer Funeral Home Southside Chapel on Tuesday, October 14, 2025, from 7:00 PM to 9:00 PM. A Celebration of Life service will take place on Wednesday, October 15, 2025, at 11:00 AM at Freedom Fellowship Church, 836 Regency Drive, Virginia Beach. Mary will be laid to rest at Rosewood Memorial Park with a date still to be determined.
Mary's family invites you to share your condolences and memories at www.altmeyerfh.com. In this time of mourning, let us also celebrate the beautiful life Mary lived and the love she so generously shared with the world.
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