Mary Ellen Early

WATERFORD Mary Ellen Early, 54, of 7th Street, passed away peacefully at home after a brief and courageous struggle with brain cancer. She was lovingly surrounded by her family, friends, and a supportive hospice team.
Mary Ellen was the daughter of James and Helen (Clark) Early of Waterford and a resident of the Village of Waterford, that she fondly called "the center of the universe." She graduated from Waterford-Halfmoon High School in 1989. She went on to earn degrees in Early Childhood Education, Liberal Arts, and Dental Hygiene from Hudson Valley Community College in Troy, NY.
Dental hygiene became both her profession and passion. Mary Ellen spent 24 years as a hygienist, most recently at the Greene County Correctional Facility in Coxsackie and for the New York State Office for People With Developmental Disabilities.
Mary Ellen also worked in several private dental practices throughout her career. Mary Ellen had an extraordinary depth of compassion and treated her patients-especially those in vulnerable populations-with great kindness, dignity, and humor.
Mary Ellen was a woman of deep faith. She worshiped at St. Edward the Confessor Church in Clifton Park where she also served as a lector. She was a proud friend of Bill W., celebrating over 15 years of sobriety, and was a frequent speaker at meetings, offering honesty, hope, and encouragement to others.
Her greatest joy in life was being the mother of Patrick and Andrew Esposito of Troy, NY. She was immensely proud of the men they have become.
In addition to her sons and parents, she is survived by her sisters: Grace Boss (Mark) of Waterford, Jane Early of Tonawanda, Margaret Warner (William) of Clifton Park, and Kathleen Early (David Potter) of Colonie. She is also survived by her cherished nieces and nephews: Shannon Hastings of Troy, Julie and Luke Cullinan of Newfield, Megan Neff of Monterey, CA, Liam and Sean McMahan of Niskayuna, Kevin Grignon of Colonie, and Jennifer Grignon, of Waterford and her beloved aunt, Elizabeth Early of Watervliet and many extended family members and dear friends.
Mary Ellen was predeceased by her grandparents, Loretto and Joseph Early and Grace and M. Harvey Clark, as well as her loving uncle, Bishop Matthew H. Clark, D.D., of Rochester.
Mary Ellen also had a wonderful companion in her beloved dog, Royal Tenenbaum, who predeceased her.
Mary Ellen shared an abundance of light and laughter with everyone she met. She brought hilarity to every gathering, yet she was also a quiet, attentive listener who made others feel heard and loved. Her humor, heart, and grace in the face of illness will be remembered always.
Per Mary Ellen's wishes, in closing, a limerick:
"God, of all things the crafter,
Of all things here and hereafter,
Made, alas, Early late.
Guess He just couldn't wait
For the hereafter to be filled with her laughter."
Funeral from the Philip J. Brendese Funeral Home, 133 Broad St., (Rte. 32), Waterford on Tuesday July 1, 2025 at 10:30 am and at 11 am at St. Mary of the Assumption Church, Waterford. Interment will follow in St. Mary's Cemetery, Waterford.
Relatives and friends may visit at the funeral home on Monday June 30 from 4-7 pm
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Community Hospice, 179 Lawrence St., Saratoga Springs, NY 12866 or to the Waterford Rescue Squad, 46 4th St., Waterford, NY 12188