Mary Lou Heidemann

Mary Lou Heidemann obituary, Cincinnati, OH

Mary Lou Heidemann

Mary Heidemann Obituary

Mary Lou Heidemann, born on April 20, 1940, in Northfork, West Virginia, entered into eternal rest on April 21, 2025 in Cincinnati, Ohio. She was a beacon of kindness and compassion whose warmth touched the lives of everyone who knew her.

As the beloved daughter of William Clyde and Mary Gwyn (nee Arangio), Mary Lou was raised with the values of family and community. She shared her life with her siblings, including her dear sister, Michaeline Anderson, and her late sister, Sarah Mabry, who preceded her in death. The love and laughter that filled their home shaped Mary Lou into the vibrant person she became.

Mary Lou’s legacy is primarily reflected in her family, whom she adored with all her heart. She is survived by her cherished sons, Larry (Beth) Heidemann and Ron (Stephanie) Heidemann, and her loving daughter, Jane (Ed) Butler. Each moment spent with her children was a testament to her dedication as a mother, her proudest accomplishment being the love she fostered within her family. She found immense joy in being a grandmother to Patrick Butler and Megan (Brian) Schwankhaus, and she was ever proud to be a great-grandmother to Griffin Schwankhaus, who brought a sparkle to her eye and warmth to her heart.

Mary Lou’s personality was as vibrant as the music she loved. Her fondness for Elvis and her passion for dancing were infectious, and her laughter could light up any room. In her younger years, she spent many sunny days enjoying her time by the pool, adding to the joyful memories collected throughout her life. A true social butterfly, she embraced friendships with open arms, and her kind spirit drew people to her, creating a community that will deeply miss her presence.

A visitation will be held in her honor on May 17, 2025, from 12:00 PM to 2:00 PM at Newcomer Funeral Home, Northern Kentucky, located at 4350 Dixie Hwy, Erlanger, KY 41018. Family and friends are invited to share in the celebration of a life beautifully lived.

Mary Lou Heidemann leaves behind a legacy that will endure in the hearts of her loving family and a host of dear friends. Her compassionate spirit and unwavering love will continue to inspire those she leaves behind. Though she may have departed from this world, her memory will forever remain a guiding light in the lives she touched.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Mary's name may be made to Kenton County Animal Services or Cincinnati CARE.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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