Search by Name

Search by Name

Mary Goehring McClung

1954 - 2023

Mary Goehring McClung obituary, 1954-2023, Mount Desert, ME

Mary McClung Obituary

Mary Goehring McClung
March 16, 1954 - September 17, 2023
Southwest Harbor, Maine
Mary Goehring McClung, 69, died on Sept. 17, 2023, at her home surrounded by her family and friends. She was born March 16, 1954, in New York City, the daughter of Richard G. and Jean B. (Coffin) McClung.
Mary graduated from Choate Rosemary Hall, Wallingford, Ct. in 1972 and Hampshire College, Amherst, MA. in 1976. She worked as a system analyst and for many years as a Certified Professional Organizer. She loved nature, going for walks and working in her garden. Best of all Mary loved her many friends - talking, laughing, and playing games.
Mary is survived by her devoted partner, Beth Pomroy; sisters, Jean Nye and husband Chris, Priscilla Jelliffe, and husband John; nephews Sam, John Michael and Jeremy Jelliffe; niece Emma Jelliffe; and her wonderful cats Honey and Minnie.
A celebration of Mary's life will be held at a later date.
Those who desire may make contributions in Mary's memory to the SPCA of Hancock County (spcahancockcounty.org) 14 Bar Harbor Rd., Trenton, ME 04605.
Condolences may be expressed at www.jordanfernald.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle on Sep. 25, 2023.

Memories and Condolences
for Mary McClung

Not sure what to say?





Rae

September 17, 2024

So. Missed

Judy Sarna

January 3, 2024

My breath stopped when I saw Mary's smiling face on the Obituary Notice. We were close friends when we worked together in San Francisco. My contact with her was reduced when she moved to Maine. I got a midnight phone call from her when she was first admitted to the hospital for cancer. I was in recovery for cancer at that time. I hoped she would also recover. She is in my heart. I love her and am supremely grateful for our friendship.

Lynn Gray

October 17, 2023

I am so sad to hear of Mary's passing. We were at GCDS together and luckily crossed paths again not too long ago. Mary was always a lift- kind, gentle and fun. Somehow I gave her the nickname Grumpy, which she never was. I will truly miss her bright presence. My condolences to Priscilla and Ginger.

Sheila Delson

October 5, 2023

This is very sad news! Mary was a very kind and generous colleague, and she brought a sense of joy to those around her, and an intensity to the things she believed in, and the same with her life commitments. Her smile and kindness were contagious. She will be well missed. RIP dear Mary.

Laurene Livesey Park

October 5, 2023

I had the pleasure of volunteering with Mary on the board of directors of the Institute for Challenging Disorganization. She always brought humor and empathy to her work and was a wonderful friend. She will be missed.

Amie Knox

September 28, 2023

Oh, no. This is such sad, sad news. So many wonderful memories of Mary in our youth in Greenwich - our carpool to GCDS, laughing on the bus after school, exploring the woods behind our houses on Winding Lane, baking hundreds of batches of chocolate chip cookies after school on a far too regular basis. Such a happy, fun, clever person in all that she did. We had not in been in close touch for many years, but I will never forget our happy, special times together. Gingie and Priscilla - so sorry for your loss. Please contact me if you can. Sending love to you....xo

Francie Rourke

September 26, 2023

Such a great lady. Still can see her smiling face and hear her laugh when I was over at Winding lane with Priscilla when we were young. So so sorry for your loss Priscilla and Ginger.

Rae Ewald

September 25, 2023

No words...
What a loss:(
Smooth sailing friend
Condolences to friends and family...

Showing 1 - 8 of 8 results

Make a Donation
in Mary McClung's name

Memorial Events
for Mary McClung

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Mary's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Mary McClung's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more