Marylee Spangler Labar

Marylee Spangler Labar obituary, La Feria, TX

Marylee Spangler Labar

Marylee Labar Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Rudy Garza Funeral Home - Harlingen on Nov. 8, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

Marylee Spangler Labar, beloved mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully on November 5, 2025, in Dallas, Texas, at the age of 82.
Marylee was born on February 5, 1943, to Robert Lee Spangler and Mary Virginia "Ginger" Cloud Spangler. She grew up in La Feria, Texas, where she was active in tennis, cheerleading, and basketball. Her passion for basketball was noted by one of her friends, who described her as "a crazy basketball player." She advanced to state in doubles tennis and loved cheering on her beloved La Feria Lions. She also enjoyed spending time on South Padre Island-beachcombing, fishing, and sailing.
She married James Paul "Jimmy" Labar on December 28, 1961. Together they built a loving home filled with faith, laughter, love, and a special emphasis on family-both immediate and extended. They often hosted church gatherings and family reunions; once, they even hosted a La Feria Lions reunion. The Calvary Baptist Church youth group frequently met in their home for mission work and fellowship.
Marylee also taught English language learners for several years at Valley Baptist Academy, a mission outreach high school that served students from South America and the Caribbean. She cooked Sunday dinners for her family and church pastors and loved baking cookies to share with family, friends, and staff at Preston Tower, where she learned to play Mah Jongg.
Marylee loved art. She and Jimmy collected artwork and traveled to many art shows and museums throughout their lives. She intently studied clouds and the moon, taking photographs of their light patterns and colors and sharing them with her children as a reminder to appreciate nature. She painted landscapes-especially of the Texas Hill Country and bluebonnets. Her love of beauty and the natural world combined with her creativity, resulting in many floral arrangements and decorations for special events.
She is survived by her children: Jamie Labar, Melissa Labar Kilgore (Jim), Virginia Labar (Niels Cordes), and Stephen Labar (Kim); her beloved grandchildren: Allyson (Justin Hasson), Michael Kilgore, and Cameron Labar; and her newest joy, great-grandson Noah Hasson.
A celebration of life will be held in Dallas, TX and Harlingen, TX. Further arrangements are pending. Family and friends are invited to gather to share memories and honor her beautiful life. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation, the Rio Grande Valley Literacy Center, or God's Global Barnyard (https://goodgifts.elca.org).
Marylee's love and devotion to family and friends will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction and care of Rudy Garza Funeral Home of Harlingen Texas.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support Marylee's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Marylee Labar's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Marylee Labar's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?