Michael Stephen Coughlin

Michael Stephen Coughlin obituary, San Mateo, CA

Michael Stephen Coughlin

Michael Coughlin Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Sneider & Sullivan & O’Connell’s Funeral Home and Cremation Service on Aug. 12, 2023.

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Michael Stephen Coughlin "Mike", age 53 passed away peacefully, yet unexpectedly, in his home as a result of a pulmonary embolism (massive blood clot) on August 5, 2023.
Mike's life flame was ignited the same day as the Lunar Landing in July 1969 with his birth following on April 25, 1970. He attended St. Veronica Catholic School, graduated from Serra High School, and earned his Bachelor of Science in Business Administration, Hospitality Management Major at University of San Francisco. He was an active member of Zeta Beta Tau fraternity, serving as their Treasurer. Mike served in an advisory capacity for both S.V. and USF Hospitality Management Program. Mike was still close to many of his S.V., Serra, and USF friends, creating great memories over five decades.
During his teen years, Mike worked at the family business, Galli's Sanitary Bakery, creating strong bonds with his grandparents, aunt, uncle, and cousins. About this time, unbeknownst to Mike, a young lady set her sights on him. Thanks to Lori asking for his phone number and initiating their first date, they went on to be married in February 1995. Their son, Mitchell, was born in October 1997. Mike was the epitome of Mr. Mom; he never shied away from a dirty diaper, crying baby, or tangled mess of his nieces curly red hair. He was a wonderful dad, uncle, godfather, friend, and mentor always nurturing, guiding, encouraging, and occasionally redirecting the next generation.
Mike had an extensive, successful career. He interned at The Fairmont Hotel, San Francisco, as a front desk clerk, while at USF; he turned that experience into a 23 year career that led to the position of Director, Finance and Business Support. During his time at The Fairmont, San Francisco, he was awarded "Leader of the Year" for 2003. Following his mentor and dear friend, Valerie Thompson, he worked as Director, Procurement at Able Services, and Controller at Service by Medallion. Many of Mike's colleagues and business associates became lifelong friends.
Mike was the definition of style, from his perfectly coiffed hair, designer jeans, and stylish shoes, to his impeccably clean luxury sports car. Mike loved drinking a great glass (or full bottle) of wine, hanging out with good friends/family, cooking delicious meals, traveling the globe, and enjoying a good Sidecar cocktail.
Mike is survived by his wife of 28 years, Lori Coughlin; his son, Mitchell Coughlin; his parents, Stephen and Toni Coughlin; his in-laws, Patrick and Brenda Haniger; his sister, Bridget Kelley (husband, Sean); his sister-in-law, Kristi Johnson (husband, Chris); his nieces, Caitlin and Allison Kelley; his nephew, Tyler Johnson; several godchildren; numerous aunts and uncles; many generations of cousins; and his precious dogs, Julz and Kobe.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, August 26 from 1pm - 4pm at Domenico Winery, 1697 Industrial Road, San Carlos, CA 94070. Please RSVP by clicking here: https://nam04.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fforms.gle%2FTC2rfeK1ZyRWjQdM6&data=05%7C01%7Csguest%40cypresslawn.com%7Cbad1065a79c844401c2208db9aa0efcb%7Ce4815646fa6a4ca694a8bd11dd074c9b%7C0%7C0%7C638273788227874281%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=zSdK9%2FyWbkShEeMVZESVYtG4SX91NuQy8Cw8Oku8eGs%3D&reserved=0. All are welcome to come and celebrate everything Mike accomplished before his life flame was so suddenly extinguished. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Crohn's & Colitis Foundation of America, St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, or your favorite charitable organization. "

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August 26, 2023

Mary Ann, Cesar and Ryan Cruz Family posted to the memorial.

August 25, 2023

Amy Rojas Kantorczyk posted to the memorial.

August 24, 2023

Kelley Cosgrove planted trees.

Mary Ann, Cesar and Ryan Cruz Family

August 26, 2023

To Lori, Mitchell and Family - we extend our deepest sympathies. Mike was a kind and down to earth soul. He will be missed. Our prayers are with you.

Amy Rojas Kantorczyk

August 25, 2023

Our deepest sympathies to Lori, Mitchell, and his entire family. Mike was a special person - smart, kind, and loved to have a great time. He will be deeply missed.

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Julian Oelenheinz

August 17, 2023

Dear Lori,

my sincere condolences for your loss. I was so shocked to hear what happened and even feel more sorry for you and your family. My thoughts are with you and your beloved ones. I am wishing you and Mitch the strength to get through this cold and dark night to see the dawn again.

Marissa Pelagio

August 16, 2023

Mike was a kind and loving human. His presence will be greatly missed.

Victoria Valton

August 15, 2023

My warmest embrace to you Lori during this unbelievably difficult time. So much love and prayers for strength to you and your family.

Bob Brown

August 15, 2023

My sincere condolences to the family. I had the pleasure of working with Mike for many years. We became friends. Will miss him.

Jaye Whitmore

August 13, 2023

Mike was one of a kind. Compassionate, kind, thoughtful and a great boss.He will be missed dearly. RIP "M.C.".

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August 26, 2023

Mary Ann, Cesar and Ryan Cruz Family posted to the memorial.

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Amy Rojas Kantorczyk posted to the memorial.

August 24, 2023

Kelley Cosgrove planted trees.