Nancy J. Wilder

Nancy Jo (Kosup) Wilder, 63, of Warrens, passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, September 13, 2025, after a 4.5 year battle with cancer.

She was born May 16, 1962, to Robert (Jim) and Betty Kosup in Oshkosh, Wisconsin. Nancy attended UW-Stevens Point where she earned a degree in Forestry, met the love of her life, Tim, and began many lifelong friendships. Nancy enjoyed quilting, stamping, crafts and baking. Her house always smelled like fresh homemade bread! She was an active member in the Queen of the Apostles Parish in Tomah, including participating in the PCCW.

Nancy was a devoted Wife and Mom, and she especially reveled in her role as Grandma. Her abundant love was always apparent. From favorite foods to thoughtful gifts and experiences, she insisted on only the best for her loved ones. She devoted much of her free time finding ways to care for her family and went above and beyond to be a very active grandma to her three grandsons!

Large gatherings with family brought Nancy great joy, especially those including endless lively games of 5-Handed Pfeffer. The opportunity to spend time with family was especially important throughout her treatment and brightened her days immeasurably. Her family cherishes the countless precious memories they have with her.

Nancy is survived by her loving husband of 37 years, Tim Wilder; her children Trenton (Savanna) Wilder and Travis (Lieah) Wilder; her grandchildren Logan, Mason, and Jonas; and her siblings Barb (Dave) Kersztyn, Sue Kosup (Jane Miller), and Jim (Julie) Kosup as well as numerous nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents.

Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, September 19, 2025, 11:00 a.m. at the Queen of the Apostles Parish in Tomah. Father Ethan Hokamp will officiate. Burial will follow in the St. Mary's Catholic Cemetery, Tomah. Family and friends are invited for visitation on Thursday, September 18, 2025, from 4:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. with a rosary beginning at 3:30 p.m. and a sharing of memories beginning at 6:30 p.m. at the Torkelson Funeral Home in Tomah. Family and friends are also invited for a visitation on Friday from 9:00 a.m. until 10:45 a.m. at the funeral home.

In lieu of flowers, donations to Queen of the Apostles Parish in Tomah or Relevant Radio are appreciated.

The Torkelson Funeral Home in Tomah is assisting the family with arrangements. Online condolences may be offered at www.torkelsonfuneralhome.com