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Susan Hanway
July 1, 2025
I´m so sad to hear of Pam´s passing and wish we had kept in touch. Pam was a friend since Katonah Elementary School, and a fellow John Jay classmate. Our fathers were doctors at the same medical group and we both attended the wonderful Katonah Presbyterian Church. I remember, decades ago as children, Pam confiding that she wished she had been named Ruth. When I asked her why she said (as I recall) because it sounded sophisticated. Pam was far ahead of me developmentally in high school and we were in different groups, but I always loved her and will miss her beautiful soul as it now joins her mother.
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Richard Cogswell
June 29, 2025
Many memories from John Jay. Pamela was well respected by students and staff.
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