Pamela Smith

Pamela Smith obituary

Pamela Smith

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12 East Ash Street, Columbia, MO 65203

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Pamela Smith Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Parker-Millard Funeral Service and Crematory on Aug. 19, 2025.

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Pamela Ann Smith, 59, of Columbia, Missouri, passed away peacefully on August 16, 2025, surrounded by the love of her family.

Born on October 4, 1965, in Columbia, Pamela was the beloved daughter of Ernest Smith and the late Ruby (Whittler) Smith. She was a lifelong resident of Columbia and a cherished daughter, sister, aunt, and friend. She was a 1984 graduate of Hickman High School. Pamela is survived by her devoted father, Ernest Smith; her brothers, Daryl (Natalie) Smith and Carl (Elizabeth) Smith; and her sisters, Cheree (Keith) Jordan and Stacye Smith, and a host of nieces, nephews, and great nieces and great nephews. She was preceded in death by her loving mother, Ruby (Whittler) Smith.

Known for her quiet nature and infectious laugh, Pamela had a unique giggle that could light up any room. Her deep love for her family was evident in the way she was doted on by her nieces. She treasured family gatherings and big dinners, where she found joy in simply being together.

Pamela had a beautiful singing voice and served as a soprano in the church choir at Destiny Worship Center International, where her love for Christian music uplifted those around her. She also enjoyed relaxing with her favorite classic TV shows on MeTV.

Pamela's warmth, kindness, and gentle spirit will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved her.

In lieu of flowers memorial donation may be made to Destiny Learning Center, 4914 Prairie Ridge, Columbia, Missouri 65202.

Family will receive friends on Friday August 22, 2025, from 11:00am – 12:00pm followed by service at 12:00pm at Parker-Millard Funeral Service & Crematory 12 E. Ash St. Columbia, MO 65203.

Arrangements are under the direction of Parker-Millard Funeral Service & Crematory, 12 East Ash Street, Columbia, MO 65203 (573) 449-4153. Condolences may be left online for the family at www.millardfamilychapels.com

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Upcoming Events

Aug

22

Visitation

11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Parker-Millard Funeral Service & Crematory

12 East Ash Street, Columbia, MO 65203

Send Flowers

Aug

22

Service

12:00 p.m.

Parker-Millard Funeral Service & Crematory

12 East Ash Street, Columbia, MO 65203

Send Flowers

Aug

22

Graveside service

Columbia Cemetery

30 East Broadway, Columbia, MO 65203

Send Flowers

Only 1 day left for delivery to next service.