Obituary published on Legacy.com by Mason Funeral Home - Metamora Chapel on Mar. 8, 2025.
Patrick Michael Adlington, 57, of
Metamora, IL, passed away at 12:53 am on Wednesday, March 5, 2025 at the Mayo Clinic Hospital Methodist Campus in Rochester, MN. He passed during an organ transplant operation, pursued with hope for a healthier future.
Born on March 16, 1967, in Peoria, IL, Patrick was the son of John and Mary (Cleary) Adlington. He found his soulmate in Deborah Horst, and they were married on October 29, 1994. Together, they built a life filled with love and laughter, sharing over 30 years of marriage.
Patrick is survived by his wife, Debbie, and their three sons, John 'Jack' (Hannah (Rogers) Adlington), Dominic (fiancé Hannah Nguyen), and Parker. He also has two brothers, Christopher (Ann) and Timothy (Lisa), who were close to him. He was preceded in death by his parents. His family was his focus and the motivation behind everything he did. He loved, supported, and encouraged his family every day of his life.
He loved God and felt grateful despite any hardship he encountered. He thanked God for his growing family, with a grandson expected in June and another daughter-in-law in November. He thanked God for a beautiful day fishing. He recognized big and small blessings every day.
Patrick was renowned for his exceptional sense of humor. With his sharp wit and a knack for bringing smiles and laughter to those around him, he had a rare gift for lightening any moment. Despite facing significant medical challenges, he never lost his sense of humor or his ability to brighten others' days.
He was an avid sports fan, particularly enjoying sports radio and watching a wide range of sports including, Cubs baseball, Bears football, Michigan basketball and football, and Formula 1 racing. He especially cherished watching his sons play sports, encouraging them to try any sport they enjoyed and emphasizing the importance of having fun and showing commitment.
He was a culinary artist. He would ask what you like, what you are hungry for then make the best version you ever had. He experimented with spices, ingredients, cooking methods, and never made the same thing twice. When he repurposed the leftovers, he made something better. Family encouraged him to pursue cooking professionally, but cooking for family was his passion. Ordinary day meals were splendid, but for special days, he would spend hours planning, grocery shopping, and cooking. For every meal, he patiently waited for everyone to reach the table to share a prayer, talk about the food, and talk about the day. He knew the value of taking time with family. When his sons had friends over, they would gush about how delicious it was and how fun it was to slowly share a meal all together.
He had a deep love for animals and a genuine desire to care for them. Not only did he pamper his own indoor cats, but he also extended his care to any bird or stray cat that ventured into the yard.
He was a 1985 graduate of Spalding High School. He was a salesman for several decades. This sales experience made him an excellent driver with no accidents and a wonderful one-on-one communicator. When he met a new person, he quickly made connections, shared silly stories, and gained trust. He valued his customer relationships. He took pride in delivering on promises and respected customers who did the same.
In recent years, he navigated medical issues with bravery, humor, diligence, and a hope that was driven by faith in God. He was keenly aware that everyone struggles, so he spread kindness and appreciated kindness. Throughout his medical journey, he would reflect on his day and share stories of anyone who had shown him kindness and helped him maintain dignity, including, the gentle person who drew his blood, the pharmacist that greeted him 'Hello Mr. Adlington', and the office staff that called him back- any medical staff that listened, showed care, and delivered what was expected.
He was filled with hope and faith, knowing that God loved him and had a plan for his life. He found an online support group for his condition, then got frustrated when the group did not allow Christian messages. He started his own Christian online support group, and it grew to almost 100 members.
He was proud of his military experience in the Army Reserves, deeply respecting the bravery, endurance, and sacrifices of those who served. He enjoyed movies, video games, and books about military experiences.
Patrick also enjoyed spending time outdoors and was a member of the Izaak Walton League in Metamora. Last summer, he spent many happy hours fishing there.
Patrick will be deeply missed. Cremation rites have been accorded. A Memorial Mass will be held at 11:00 am on Friday, March 14, 2025 at St. Mary's Catholic Church in
Metamora, IL with Father David Kipfer officiating. Visitation will be held from 9:30 am until mass time. To honor Patrick's wishes, please dress comfortably and casually for the service-formal attire is not required. A private family burial of ashes will be held at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the Gift of Life Transplant House, 705 Second Street SW, Rochester, MN 55902 or to the A.R.K. Humane Society Shelter, 477 State Route 26, Lacon, IL 61540. Online condolences at www.masonfuneralhomes.com.
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