Patrick Joseph Carley

Patrick Joseph Carley obituary, Patchogue, NY

Patrick Joseph Carley

Patrick Carley Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Ruland Funeral Home, Inc. - Patchogue on Oct. 1, 2025.

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Visiting hours for retired Detective Patrick Joseph Carley will be held on Monday, July 7th, from 2-4pm and 7-9pm at the Ruland Funeral Home in Patchogue NY.
On Tuesday, July 8th at 10:00am, a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Joseph The Worker RC Church in East Patchogue, NY. Burial to follow in Saint Charles Cemetery.
For those who wish to make memorial donations, the family asks that you consider St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
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Ruland Funeral Home, Inc. - Patchogue

500 North Ocean Avenue, Patchogue, NY 11772

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