Patrick Exley Obituary
Patrick (Pat) Exley, 62, passed away at home after a brief illness on August 15, 2024. Pat had five siblings, was born and raised in West St. Paul and was a long-time resident of Eagan. After graduating from Henry Sibley High School in 1980, Pat pursued a major in computer science from the University of Minnesota and held a long-time career as a computer programmer, retiring from Dell in 2023.
An avid biker, Pat was a member of the Twin Cities Bicycle Club and enjoyed leading and joining many group rides around the cities as well as solo trips exploring the many scenic bike trails throughout Minnesota and the country. Pat loved nature and enjoyed the peacefulness of hiking through the woods, boating and kayaking area lakes.
Pat's greatest passion was music -- singing songs, playing guitar, jamming with fellow musician friends, and enjoying the talent of numerous musicians at concerts and venues throughout the cities. If there was music, you would find Pat. He loved his family and friends, sharing great times together to watch football or take in a concert and other event.
Pat was a wonderful brother and uncle and had great compassion and understanding for those less fortunate. He will be deeply missed by many.
Preceded in death by parents Lorraine (Quinn) and Richard O. Exley.
Survived by siblings Mark (Jean), Peg, Leo (Wanda), Rick (Susie) and Tony; Nieces Christine (Stephen) and Anna; Nephews David (Ruth) and Lance (Hannah); Great Nieces Claire and Brooke; Great Nephews William, Daniel and Quinn and many other relatives and friends.
Join us for a celebration of Pat's life on Tuesday, September 10, 2024, 4 – 7 pm, at Willwerscheid Funeral Home – West-Heights Chapel, 235 Wentworth Ave W, West St. Paul. Casual attire suggested. In lieu of flowers, donations preferred to a charity of your choice.
Willwerscheid Funeral Home & Cremation Service - West-Heights
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Patt Seleen
September 6, 2024
Pat was a member of the Twin Cities Bicycling Club (TCBC) since 2003. He became a leader in 2006 and in recent years, he led a very popular ride named "Yacht Rock". During his briefings and on the ride, he would always test the riders on their knowledge of Yacht Rock songs and other local history. Pat was very knowledgeable, many of us .... not so, but that didn't stop the fun. On Sunday, September 1, several TCBC leaders led his "Yacht Rock" ride. It was attended by 50 TCBC members (maybe the largest single club ride of the year). Memories and songs were shared during the ride briefing in honor of Pat, a friend to many and beloved TCBC member! It was a very special ride!
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Patt Seleen
September 6, 2024
Pat was a member of the Twin Cities Bicycling Club (TCBC) since 2003. He became a leader in 2006 and in recent years, he led a very popular ride named "Yacht Rock". During his briefings and on the ride, he would always test the riders on their knowledge of Yacht Rock songs and other local history. Pat was very knowledgeable, many of us .... not so, but that didn't stop the fun. On Sunday, September 1, several TCBC leaders led his "Yacht Rock" ride. It was attended by 50 TCBC members (maybe the largest single club ride of the year). Memories and songs were shared during the ride briefing in honor of Pat, a friend to many and beloved TCBC member! It was a very special ride!
Lisa Gerard
August 23, 2024
I remember boating with Pat on the St. Croix, and attending various concerts with Pat and Peg. I went on the MN Ironman yearly bike ride 62 mile run with Pat one year. He was the perfect person to ride with. Pat was a very sweet guy, very thoughtful and easy going, and also fun. I am so very sorry to hear he is gone. I will always remember him with much fondness. Rest in Peace Pat. Lisa Gerard
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