Patrick D. Quillinan

Patrick D. Quillinan obituary, Highland Park, IL

Patrick D. Quillinan

Patrick Quillinan Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Kelley & Spalding Funeral Home & Crematory on Dec. 27, 2025.
Patrick D. Quillinan, age 72, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on December 24, 2025.
Patrick was born on March 2, 1953, in Oak Park, Illinois, to the late Robert and Florence Quillinan. He grew up alongside his brothers, Robert (Vanessa) Quillinan and Michael (Connie) Quillinan.
On March 14, 1987, Patrick married the love of his life, Manetta (née Higgason), and they shared 38 years of marriage. He was a devoted father to his son, Christopher Quillinan, and held a special bond with his nephew, Jaden Kruse.
Patrick is survived by his wife, son, brothers, and many cherished in-laws: Donald (Teri) Higgason, Robert (Kathy) Higgason, Barbara Higgason, Richard Higgason, and Sheila (Brian) Burns. He was preceded in death by Mary Beth Kruse and Dale Higgason (Jean). He is also lovingly remembered by his many nieces, nephews, extended family members, and close friends.
Patrick graduated from St. Patrick High School, earned his bachelor's degree from Western Illinois University, and went on to receive a master's degree from Webster University. He began his career in law enforcement immediately after school, joining the Lincolnshire Police Department, where he proudly served for 30 dedicated years, retiring as a Commander.
Patrick was also a member of the Vernon Township Fire Protection District and remained committed to public safety throughout his life. After retiring from law enforcement, he worked for Takeda Pharmaceuticals in security investigations and later served as Regional Security Manager at Discover Financial Services. He was an active member of ATAP, ASIS, and several other professional organizations.
Deeply invested in youth and community service, Patrick founded the Explorer Post at the Lincolnshire Police Department. He was highly involved in St. Mary Catholic Church in Buffalo Grove, along with their school and Boy Scout Troop. As well as Stevenson High School and Daniel Wright Middle School, giving generously of his time and leadership.
Patrick will be remembered for his dedication, integrity, and unwavering commitment to his family and community. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.
A visitation will be held on Friday, January 2nd 2026 - 03:00 PM to 07:00 PM - Kelley & Spalding Funeral Home - 1787 Deerfield Road, Highland Park, IL 60035. A funeral mass will be held on Saturday, January 3rd 2026 - 10:30 AM - Saint Mary Parish - 10 N. Buffalo Grove Rd., Buffalo Grove, IL 60089. Interment at All Saints Cemetery, Des Plaines, IL.
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December 29, 2025

John Bartelt posted to the memorial.

December 29, 2025

Chief of Police John J. Sliozis posted to the memorial.

December 28, 2025

Louise Berra Kraft posted to the memorial.

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John Bartelt

December 29, 2025

I am so sorry for your loss. I first met Patrick many years ago playing softball in the St. Mary's men's league. After our playing days, I looked forward to Patrick greeting me with a smile while holding the door open as I walked up the steps to mass each weekend. He was such a sweet guy and his smile was contagious. He will be missed - 72 is way too young, but he lived an impactful life! Rest in peace, my friend.

Chief of Police John J. Sliozis

December 29, 2025

On behalf of the men and women of the Deerfield Police Department, I would like to extend our condolences and deepest sympathies to the family and friends of Pat Quillinan as you move through these difficult times. Whatever the endeavor, Pat was up to the challenge and was always a professional and an outstanding person, father, husband, friend, etc. He will be missed by all.

Louise Berra Kraft

December 28, 2025

The first time I met Pat was 60 years ago when he was a patrol boy/crossing guard at a corner near St. Cornelius school. He was very kind and polite, a glimpse of the man he would become. We met again at our grade school reunion. Pat was a lovely man-thoughtful, considerate, and always warm in spirit. I´m grateful to have known him, and I hold his memory with respect and affection.

Jo Murray Holtby

December 28, 2025

I remember Pat as a kind young man and a very good student. My thoughts and prayers go out to his wife and family.
Jo Murray Holtby, SCS Class of 1967.

Carrie Speck Nielsen

December 27, 2025

Though he, that ever kind and true,
Kept stoutly step by step with you,
Your whole long, gusty lifetime through,
Be gone a while before,
Be now a moment gone before,
Yet, doubt not, soon the seasons shall restore
Your friend to you.

Judy Faber-Bigsby

December 27, 2025

Pat was a wonderful classmate, a loyal friend, a kind and generous man. We all are lucky to have known him. My deepest condolences to his wife and family.
Judy Faber-Bigsby, SCS Class of '67

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