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He was born on Sept. 8, 1940, in Lincoln, son of the late Arthur and Antonette (Fornier) Asselin. From 1959 to 1963 Paul proudly served his country in the United States Air Force. Upon his return Paul went on to earn his degree in Business Administration from UNH Durham. He worked hard and through the years owned and ran several businesses, A & A Alarms, Ansaphone of Manchester, A & A Enterprises, Jupiter Alarms and Skycom to name a few.
Paul loved to be out in the woods, cutting down trees, driving his tractor or just taking a walk. Over the years he raised pigs and even had a goat, he loved animals of all kinds especially his Dobermans. He was quite handy having remodeled six homes in Deerfield, in his younger years he enjoyed gardening and loved hosting everyone for a bbq.
Besides his parents, Paul was predeceased by his siblings, Maurice Asselin, Claire Mulleavey and Roger Asselin.
He is survived by his wife, Judith A. (Painter) Asselin of Deerfield, with whom he shared 53 years of marriage; daughters, Michelle Damour and her husband Kevin and Danielle Ruais; four grandchildren, Anna and Noah Ruais and David and Michael Damour as well as several nieces, nephews and cousins.
There are no calling hours. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, February 28, 2026 at 10AM at St. Joseph's Church in Northwood with a reception to follow. Burial will take place in the spring in Lincoln. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to the Granite VNA Hospice, 30 Pillsbury Street, Concord, NH 03301. The Roan Family Funeral Home -Still Oaks Chapel, 1217 Suncook Valley Highway in Epsom is assisting the family with arrangements. To share a memory or offer condolences please visit www.roanfamilyfuneral.com
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Wayne Greene
March 6, 2026
The class of 58" was small and close. We all enjoyed each other´s company.Paul may your spirit soar with the eagles and look down favourably upon us.
Rejean John Drouin the Villages FL
March 6, 2026
My deepest sympathy to the Asselin family, my thoughts and prayers are with the entire family during these difficult time
Elizabeth Tanguay (Marino)
February 23, 2026
Some of my favorite memories are sitting in church with Mr. & Mrs. A. Seeing them every Sunday was always the highlight of my week!
Not by blood, but by heart - my adopted grandparents, truly family. Forever grateful you chose me as your adopted granddaughter. I´ll miss you more than words can say, Mr. A.
stephen a isabelle
February 20, 2026
Thank you for being a friend and good neighbor on currier rd
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George and Marie Asselin
February 18, 2026
Dear Paul,
We will miss you.
May Judy, Michelle, Danielle and their families find peace and joy. You gave them memories to be treasured.
You were all about family and they came from far and wide to your Labor Day barbecues-such fun!
At our house, we will miss you for Thanksgiving dinner. How you loved those shrimp! Thank you for bringing beautiful Judy and two lovely Goddaughters into our lives.
May you rest in peace.
Robert D Machain
February 18, 2026
Mr. Asselin, Thank you for your service . RDM Windham NH
Darlene Asselin
February 16, 2026
i´m sending my love to Judy, Michelle, Danielle and all the family for your loss. Paul was an original and we will miss him. He loved to debate and stand up for what he believed in but most of all, he loved his family. I´m sorry we can´t make to the funeral, but I hope we can see you all soon. XO
Mary Dinolfo
February 15, 2026
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Asselin family during this time. Uncle Paul was a wonderful man who will be dearly missed. His generous heart and gift of hospitality toward his family were a beautiful expression of loving kindness. He had a deep desire to provide well for those in his care, and that devotion was evident in the way he lived. He had a tremendous work ethic and was always busy with one project or another, always including us if we were interested.
I loved all the animals he had, and staying with his family was always a time of adventure-exploring the outdoors with my cousins, taking walks and hikes, swimming in their pool and later in their lake, fishing, horseback riding, skiing, and sledding. Time with the Asselin family was never dull; it was full of activity, laughter, and togetherness. Uncle Paul was always instructing or teaching me about something, and that didn´t end as I grew older. He genuinely enjoyed sharing what he knew.
I´ll never forget helping him buy furniture and supplies for the house in Florida-he certainly knew how to rope you into his chores if you were willing. Even with a full schedule of appointments and obligations, he always made time to share a meal with me when I came to visit Grandma Painter. He took such good care of her, serving as her personal "Mr. Fix-it" for anything she might need.
He loved talking about the economy or politics with Dan, and I was so pleased that the two of them hit it off right away. After meeting him, Uncle Paul told me, "You picked a good one," which meant so much to me. He was also a wonderful great-uncle to my children and always showed genuine interest in their lives.
Whenever we visited him in Florida or New Hampshire, he was always coaxing us to stay a little longer or asking when we would be coming back again. He truly loved having family gathered around him.
He took great care of his wife, my Aunt Judy, and opened his home to my Grandma when she was no longer able to live independently. His devotion to them spoke volumes about his love and commitment, and it was a beautiful testimony to our whole family.
I am so blessed that he married into our family and loved us so well.
You will be deeply missed, Uncle Paul. We love you very much and look forward to seeing you again in Heaven.
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