Phil Erff

Phil Erff obituary, West Haven, CT

Phil Erff

Phil Erff Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by West Haven Funeral Home - West Haven on Aug. 8, 2022.

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Phil Erff, of West Haven passed away peacefully on August 3, 2022 with his family by his side. He is survived by his children, Mary Ann (John) Lohrenz, Frank Ameden, Jennifer (Bradley) Doherty, John Thayer, and Coreena Baker along with many grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his father Joseph Erff Sr, mother Helen (Hendricks), brothers Joseph Erff Jr, Robert Erff Sr, George Erff, Frank Erff and sister Patty Eyler along with nephews Robert Erff Jr, John Erff, and Scott Erff, and granddaughter Felicia Baker, and great grandson Waylon Downey.
He appreciated everyone with the joy and love of the true Santa Claus and loved to make everyone laugh. He had a special affinity for children and people with special needs. It was hard to be in a bad mood with his awful dad jokes and puns. Phil's only goal was to make the world a better place, one person, one pin at a time. He was known for handing out smiley pins to those he encountered. His purpose was fulfilled if he succeeded in getting one person to smile! A staunch supporter of Veteran's groups, Phil served proudly in the Navy on the USS Shangri La during Vietnam. We will all miss him and his chair riding through town, pestering the folks at Dunkin Donuts and Prospect Beach House, listening to music at the beach, and being his normal (abnormal) quirky, stubborn, light-hearted self. He was so loved by his family, friends and his town of West Haven. Thank you for loving him and our family.
Visitation will take place on Tuesday August 9, 2022 from 4 to 7 pm at the funeral home. In keeping with Phil's spirit, please perform a random act of kindness for someone. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to VVA West Haven or Toys for Tots.
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Art Trager

August 9, 2022

Was friends with Phil @ WH Donuts the past 5 years. He was a great guy with a wonderful sense of humor. Tho not as frequently last couple of years, always brightened my day when Phil rolled into DD. Will miss him. RIP Phil.

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