Ren Cain Obituary
Surviving are his beloved daughter Evie, his mother and step-father Joanne and Daniel Kimmel, his father and step-mother Mike Cain and Jen Drain, his siblings Daniel Kimmel, Tara Craft and Chantel Moody, his Meema Anne Fazekas, and many loving uncles, aunts, cousins and friends who will miss him dearly.
Calling hours at the Carmen F. Spezzi Funeral Home 15 Cherry Lane, Parlin will be Friday from 4pm to 8pm. A private cremation will follow. In lieu of flowers, donations in Ren's name may be made to the Monmouth County SPCA 260 Wall St, Eatontown, NJ 07724.
Complete funeral details, directions, and letters of condolence to the family may be found by visiting www.spezzifuneralhome.com
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Paul Fine
January 23, 2026
Ren was an extremely talented and perfectly tempered to work alongside us in challenging conditions. His ability to navigate around those challenges with confidence and a smile is something I will take with me.
Though we worked together for several years, it wasn´t until recently we bonded, and for that tiny bit of time together we laughed and laughed.
My personal best wishes to all of you.
Godspeed, Ren.
On behalf of the lighting guys.
Paul.
Lisa Kovacs (Amanda´s Mom)
January 21, 2026
My thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathies are with you. May Ren´s memory be a blessing.
Sonnet XCIV by Pablo Neruda
"If I die, survive me with such sheer force that you waken the furies of the pallid and the cold, from south to south lift your indelible eyes, from sun to sun dream through your singing mouth. I don´t want your laughter or your steps to waver, I don´t want my heritage of joy to die. Don´t call up my person. I am absent. Live in my absence as if in a house. Absence is a house so vast that inside you will pass through its walls and hang pictures on the air. Absence is a house so transparent that I, lifeless, will see you, living, and if you suffer, my love, I will die again. "
Rich & Terri Eisinger
January 21, 2026
So sorry for your loss!! Our sincere condolences!
Rich & Terri Eisinger
Hannah Russo
January 21, 2026
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Alejandro Alameda
January 21, 2026
Alejandro, Danielle and Ryleigh send our condolences.
Dave and Emily Schmidt
January 20, 2026
Ren felt to me like the son I never had. He was the coolest guy I ever knew. Even recently we had so much fun golfing and sharing wonderful times together. We are very sorry he is no longer with us!. Dave and Emily
Nick lanzalotto
January 20, 2026
So sorry for your loss Rip
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