Robert D. Ermer

Robert D. Ermer obituary, Windham, NH

Robert D. Ermer

Robert Ermer Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Carrier Family Funeral Home & Crematory - Windham on May 29, 2025.
Facebook repeat offender known as Robert D. Ermer, 55, of Salem, NH, aka "Frankie" with his loving wife by his side, was summoned to appear before the Angels on Tuesday, May 27th, 2025, to raise Hell and Streak Butt naked through the clouds! F' the wings, they would only slow him down!
The world trembled a bit when this legend was born on September 23, 1969, to Ralph and the late Kathleen (Eden) Ermer. Rob was raised in Salem, NH and attended local schools as a graduate of Salem High School in 1988.
Rob loved his motorcycle "shortbus", his super duty F-350 lovingly named "Black Betty" and attending big rig truck shows (every single one of them). He had an eye for meticulously detailing all of the vehicles he came in contact with, his or not. Rob appreciated all genres of music. He adored his French Bulldogs, "Frankie and Ollie" and boasted they looked just like him.
Above all, he cherished spending time with friends and family. He will always be remembered for his resilient and inspirational personality as his health issues never phased him.
In addition to his father, Ralph, his step-mother Carol. Rob is survived by his loving wife Chrystal (Rhoades) Ermer; his sons Lucas Passos and Nicholas Passos; his brother Chris Ermer; his uncles Lenny Eden, Greg Eden and his wife Darlene, and Billy Ermer and his wife Lorraine; his nephews Malcolm, Ralphie and Justin.
He is predeceased by his mother, Kathleen, and his sister Donna Ermer.
Friends and family are invited to a celebration of Rob's life on Saturday, May 31, 2025 from 4pm to 9pm at the Derry-Salem Elks Club Rain or Shine. To leave an online message of condolence, please visit: www.carrierfuneralhome.com Arrangements are under the care of the Carrier Family Funeral Home, 38 Range Road, Windham, NH 03087.

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Wayne st. Amand

May 29, 2025

Rob, you will never be forgotten.
You were a great friend to everyone you met. You are now with your little sister and your mom and I'm sure there is no more pain. Now you can drive your 18 Wheeler through the skies like you so much loved.

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38 Range Rd, Route 111, Windham, NH 03087

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