Robert Ray Ruhlman

We are deeply saddened to announce the passing of Robert Ray Ruhlman, born in New Orleans on January 26, 1960 to the late George J. Ruhlman, Jr. and Alice R. Ruhlman. Rob passed away on March 24, 2025 after a long battle with cancer. He is survived by his loving partner Charles M. Barbier; siblings Margaret R. Mang (Fabien), Bernice R. DeCorte and John R. Ruhlman (Eileen); nieces and nephews, George J. Ruhlman IV, Amanda M. Weaver (Dustin), Melissa A. Mang, Jessica D. Reeg (Steven), John R. Ruhlman Jr. (Kaitlin), Joel Ray Ruhlman (Amanda), and Dara R. Greene (Jordan). He was preceded in death by his brother George J. Ruhlman III.
Rob graduated from St. John Preparatory School in New Orleans and went on to Saint Joseph Seminary College in St. Benedict, La. where he achieved a BA in psychology and philosophy. He also completed graduate studies at Notre Dame Seminary in New Orleans where he received a Masters of Divinity.
Rob's work experience began as a psych tech at Jo Ellen Smith Hospital. His varied experiences there helped him decide to join the military. He served six years in the U.S. Navy, mostly spent on the USS Independence Aircraft Carrier as a combat systems tech. After his military service ended, he worked at Tulane University in the Psychology Department as a computer tech. and troubleshooter.
Post Katrina, Rob started a repair and remodeling company with Charlie Barbier. They offered Handyman Services and helped repair and rebuild many damaged properties after the hurricane. He was always available when family members called. He will be dearly missed for his mechanical, electrical, plumbing and technical expertise.
Rob's real love was found when he discovered quilting. His interest in quilting began as another hobby or craft but he quickly became obsessed with the art of quilting.
Rob worked at the Quilted Owl shop on Jefferson Hwy. for many years, teaching classes and entertaining customers with his stories. He became an artist with the Long-Arm Quilting machine. He sewed, quilted and finished quilts for many people and continued his successful business until his recent illness.
Rob's family would like to thank the doctors, nurses, and staff who cared for him during his years long battle with cancer and his 5 week stay at the VA Hospital.
A special thanks to Heart of Hospice and their staff who cared for Rob so lovingly at home. Also, thanks to a special "Angel" who was a constant presence during his illness and so greatly appreciated.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Rob's name to a cancer research organization of your choice.
Family and friends are invited to a Memorial Mass at St. Mary Magdalen Church, 6425 W. Metairie Ave. Metairie, LA. 70003 on Wednesday April 2, 2025. Visitation will begin at 9:30 am followed by Mass at 12:00.