Roger David Sucharski

Roger David Sucharski, a beacon of love and thoughtfulness, passed away on January 18, 2024, in Alexandria, VA, leaving behind a legacy of kindness and community involvement. Born in Alpena on August 14, 1951, to the late Walter and Dolores (Panowicz) Sucharski, Roger's life was marked by a dedication to his family, his work, and the causes close to his heart.
Roger's journey through life was one of connection and achievement. He was a devoted partner to Cuong Ho for over 20 years, sharing a life filled with mutual support and joy. His educational pursuits led him to earn a Master's degree from Michigan State University, a testament to his passion for learning and growth. Professionally, Roger made significant contributions to the field of cyber security, demonstrating his expertise and commitment to protecting others throughout his career.
Family was the cornerstone of Roger's life. He was a cherished brother to Ann Sucharski, Catherine (Mark) Hunault, and Cathleen (Steven) Idalski. He also held a special place in the hearts of his nieces and nephews: Andrew (Samantha) Sucharski, Danielle Broderick, Christopher Broderick, Ashley (Tronic) Hunault-Williams, Eric (Caylin) Hunault, Stephanie Idalski, Joshua (Amanda) Idalski, and Bridget Sucharski. His sister-in-law, Penny Sucharski, and several great-nephews, also survive him. Roger walked alongside his siblings sharing in life's joys and challenges, and his guidance and love will be deeply missed. He was preceded in death by his brothers, Phil and James Sucharski, and now joins them in peaceful rest.
Roger's impact extended far beyond his immediate family. He was well connected and profoundly loved by those around him, thanks to his generous spirit and warm presence. He was a pillar in various community outreaches, including Wreaths Across America, LGBTQ Pride Parades, and the Gay and Straight Alliance Club at the Alpena High School. His dedication to the Smyal organization (Supporting and Mentoring Youth Advocates and Leaders) underscored his commitment to supporting and empowering LGBTQ youth in the Washington, DC, metropolitan region.
Those who knew Roger understood that his actions were driven by love and a deep sense of social responsibility. He was a man who believed in the power of community and worked tirelessly to make the world a more inclusive and compassionate place. Roger's thoughtful nature made him a confidant and friend to many, always ready to lend an ear or a helping hand.
Roger is at McWilliams Funeral Home where family will receive friends on Monday, January 29, 2024 from 4-8pm. Visitation will resume on Tuesday at St. Anne Catholic Church from 10am until the time of the Mass of Christian Burial at 11am with Fr. Tyler Bischoff as celebrant. Roger will be laid to rest at Holy Cross Cemetery. Memorial donations can be made to a charity of choice.