Rose Gay

Rose Gay obituary, Spencerport, NY

Rose Gay

Rose Gay Obituary

Visit the Rochester Cremation - Henrietta website to view the full obituary.

Rose Gay, a beloved mother, grandmother, and friend, passed away on September 30, 2025, at the age of 72, in Spencerport, New York. She was born on January 8, 1953, and received joy and fulfillment throughout her life, nurturing both her family and her passions.

Rose was preceded in death by her father, Joseph Brizzi Sr., her mother, Rose C. Orlando, and her cherished son, Jason Cooper. She is survived by her loving children, Sean Cooper and Heather Cooper, whose lives she enriched with her unwavering support and affection. As a proud grandmother, Rose found immense joy in her grandchildren: Brandon Burton (Toni), Amber Cooper (Jonathan), Angelina Cooper, Breanna Drake (Korbyn) (Brandon), and Mikayla Tiller. Her legacy continues with her great-grandchildren, Eliyana Rose Frechette, Asher Raymond Brown, and Kayizen Jay Moschiano, who brought her immeasurable happiness.

In addition to her immediate family, Rose is also survived by many beloved siblings, nieces, nephews, and cousins, all of whom will miss her comforting presence deeply.

Rose's passions were as vibrant as she was. She took great pride in her plants and gardening, and her dedication to nurturing her green thumb was a testament to her nurturing spirit. She cherished the moments spent with her grandchildren and found joy in sharing her love of the Jurassic Park movies and piecing together hundreds of puzzles that engaged her mind. Furthermore, her culinary skills shone brightly through her baking, particularly during the holiday season when she delighted her loved ones with her famous Christmas cookies.

In remembrance of Rose, a private celebration of life will be held for her immediate friends and family. Her kindness, warmth, and love will continue to bloom in the hearts of all those she touched throughout her journey on this earth.

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Rochester Cremation - Henrietta

4044 W. Henrietta Road, Rochester, NY 14623

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