Ruth Ann Butler

Ruth Ann Butler obituary

Ruth Ann Butler

Ruth Butler Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Miller and Miller Funeral Home - Valliant on Sep. 9, 2025.

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Ruth Ann (Davis) Butler, 63, was born on February 14, 1962, in Hugo, Oklahoma, the daughter of B.G. Davis and Christine (Schofield) Davis. She was preceded in death by her parents.

Ruth Ann was born and raised in Swink, Oklahoma and was a graduate of Valliant High School, Class of 1980. She was the youngest of 7 children and had been a member of First Baptist Church in Valliant since May 4, 1978. After sharing 22 years of love and companionship, Scott and Ruth Ann were married on July 13, 2019, in Detroit, Texas, and continued their journey together, creating many cherished memories. She enjoyed sewing, making crafts and gifting them to friends and family. She loved the outdoors and especially loved riding horses. Ruth Ann will be missed deeply by all who knew and loved her.

Ruth Ann is survived by her beloved husband, Scott of the home; children, Kenda Daniell of Clarksville, TX and Ben Haynie of Millerton, OK; bonus children, Carey Butler of Pickens, OK and Travis Neil Butler of Chandler, OK; Kimberly Nichols of Broken Bow, OK, Julie Butler-LeForce and Nikki Strawn of Valliant, OK of Thompson Falls, MT; grandchildren, Kenslee Dodson, Grady Hall, Aspyn Daniell, Eli Daniell, Ryan Butler, Bret Butler, Miles Butler, Erica Coulter, Tyler Butler, Megan Jenkins, Audrey Butler, Brad Butler, Edge Nichols, Wyatt Nichols, Chet LeForce, Caleb LeForce, Kodi Strawn, Brydon Jones, Xander Jones, Aleya'Rae Jones and Danae Jones; brothers and sisters, Pat Collins of Fort Towson, OK, Linda Miller and husband Clifton of Hugo, OK, A.L "Boo" Davis and wife Vicky of Choctaw, OK, Calvin Davis of Millerton, OK, Helen "Katy" Wilson and husband Toby of Pattonville, TX and Vickie Miller and husband Ralph of Valliant, OK; special neighbors whom she considered family, Tracy and Misty Henderson, Vincent Smith, Keith and Logan Henderson and Ally Graham, along with numerous great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and other family, friends, and loved ones.

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