Ruth Marie "Ferris" Murray

Ruth Marie "Ferris" Murray obituary, Basking Ridge, NJ

Ruth Marie "Ferris" Murray

Upcoming Events

Feb

27

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Sheenan Funeral Home (Dunellen, New Jersey)

Dunellen, New Jersey

Send Flowers

Feb

28

Funeral Mass

10:30 a.m.

St Mary's Stony Hill

225 Mountain Blvd, Watchung, NJ 07069

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Only 4 days left for delivery to next service.

Ruth Murray Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Sheenan Funeral Home - Dunellen on Feb. 22, 2026.
Ruth Marie Murray passed away on Saturday February 21 at the Arbor Terrace at Basking Ridge NJ at the age of 94. Ruth lived in Watchung and Green Brook NJ since 1960. She was born on April 29 1931 in California. She was the beloved daughter of the late Robert and Ruth Ferris from Tulsa Oklahoma. Ruth was the heart and soul of her family. After marrying the love of her life, Donald Murray, she dedicated her life to creating a loving home and raising their ten children. Her selfless nature was a comfort to everyone who knew her. She was known for her "open door" policy, where the neighborhood children often gathered. Her witty personality and humor was a gift.
Ruth volunteered at the Watchung Rescue Squad for 20 years. She also was instrumental in coordinating the CCD program at Saint Mary's Church - Stony Hill in Watchung NJ.
She is survived by her devoted husband of 75 years, Donald and nine surviving children Tom, Connie, Diane, Christine, Sandy, John, Lorie, Jackie, and Colleen. Also included are 2 daughter in laws Sandy Pauli Murray and Laura Murray. Son in laws include Joe Tamburini, Pete Desnoyers, and Charlie Greco. Ruth and Donald have 21 Grandchildren 25 Great Grandchildren and 2 Step Great Grandchildren.
She was preceded in death by her parents, her sister, Betty Nelson and daughter, Patricia.

Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend Ruth's visitation on Friday, February 27, 2026 at Sheenan Funeral Home, 233 Dunellen Avenue, Dunellen, from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM.

Her funeral mass will be celebrated on Saturday, February 28, 2026 at St Mary's Church - Stony Hill, 225 Mountain Boulevard, Watchung, at 10:30 AM. Entombment will follow at St. Mary's Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, a donation in Ruth's memory to the Watchung Rescue Squad at www.watchungems.org would be appreciated.

To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Ruth Marie (Ferris) Murray, please visit our floral store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support Ruth's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Ruth Murray's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Upcoming Events

Feb

27

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Sheenan Funeral Home (Dunellen, New Jersey)

Dunellen, New Jersey

Send Flowers

Feb

28

Funeral Mass

10:30 a.m.

St Mary's Stony Hill

225 Mountain Blvd, Watchung, NJ 07069

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Only 4 days left for delivery to next service.